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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    // I would mostly say this is because I don’t know what to do, go in a room and sit and think for hours on end?//
    > Yupe!
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    //It never seems to get me anywhere.//
    You did something, found out it didn’t work. So you try something else. That’s the basics of reaching any goal. (Here your ‘goal’ would be fixing an issue in your…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    The purpose of these questions was to help you realize, that you do not have ‘a’ problem. You have ‘many’ problems. Each problem needs to be separately addressed, one by one. Even the fact that you have not ‘individually’ addressed these issues and solved them up until now, is an issue. (Which I would like to tackle…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    Sure! I have experienced most of that, and plenty more. (Including suicidal thoughts & porn addiction & verbal discouragement from my family & physical abuse from bullying.) And I wonder who hasn’t XD (Excluding people who had such a hard time surviving, that they didn’t have the opportunity to address these thoughts.)
    First I…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    ‘Depression’ is a label. And labels sometime try to simplify something, that has more description to it. So what is this ‘depression’ that ‘you’ experience exactly? What exact experiences do you have, that you attribute to the label of ‘depression’? Could you throw away the name of the dish itself, and tell me all of its…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    I’m getting the picture.
    How do I deal with such situations, where I’m working towards a goal and things aren’t working out? (Again, since you are being completely vague about your situation. I have to generalize as well.)
    I have certain principles that I follow that help me with these kind of things.
    1) Before doing…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    //Not sure if you’re still around//
    > Sorry for the late reply.
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    //but in my case and how I see your message dependency comes of as being a negative state//
    > I do believe its a ‘negative’ and ‘unhealthy’ state if you attribute its solution to another person’s presence. And let me illustrate to you why,
    Interacting with…[Read more]

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    @etherealpanda If it was a friend http://captainawkward.com/2014/04/29/566-my-closest-friend-broke-off-our-friendship-and-now-i-dont-know-how-to-stop-feeling-lonely-and-isolated/

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

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    @etherealpanda
    If that significant person’ is someone you are sexually attracted to, then its a special case…
    Hence having a vague idea about your case, I will list all the general reasons in my artillery of knowledge, of why one may suffer stress for the leaving of a loved one.
    Here we go!
    1) Dependency: If you are, in any shape or form,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

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    Anyone who leaves you isn’t worth it @etherealpanda, you deserve to be surrounded by people who will stick by you and bring you love, hope and happiness, do your best to be upbeat and go out into the world, find new activities and meet new friends, smile and know you are cared for, I may not know you personally but I want the best for you,…[Read more]