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    equestrian27 posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    It’s been almost 3 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. Hands down he was and still is my best friend. It was a mutual breakup and everything went down well. I know that it’s for the best and there were no bitter feelings. I started talking to other guys and one of them asked me what a perfect relationship looked like to me and all I could think about was my ex. We spent 4 wonderful years together. Just kind of hard to really accept reality. I just feel like I won’t get what I had with him again. Who knows. It’s only been a few months only time can tell. It’s just hard to process everything sometimes.

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    • I would maintain a close friendship with your ex @equestrian27, let him know you still care about him and that you want him to be in your life, maybe you will get back together with him one day, try to stay positive and go forward with life as best you can, everything will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @equestrian27 But if it was perfect, why did it end? I think to move on, it’s important to admit that something wasn’t working, and include a fix for that in you model. If you get what you had with him again, you would get another breakup.

    • It’s very hard to picture how things will be in the future when you are going through times of change like those. Give yourself time @equestrian27, despite it will be difficult in the begginig. as time passes by those feelings of sadness and loss will eventually fade. Stay strong!