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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    I am supposed to be helping a fellow friend. But I’m not a therapist. Sometimes, randomly, unconsciously, my brain screams out ”Why is everything about you?” and I have to squash it down because that’s the worst way to think and it’s terrible and I’m supposed to be helping but I’m so tired.

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Hey i had a friend like that he used to complain alot and although i wanted to help i learnt that sometimes you need a break for you to breathe too and that doesn’t make you a bad person. it makes u human. So i would suggest creating open dialogue were you tell the friend that your there for them but sometimes your just tired and work it out. The…[Read more]

    • I would try to help your friend as much as you can but remember to look after yourself too @dysphorie, keep being the kind and compassionate person that you are, I would be honest, truthful and open with each other, you can do it, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    Slept for 17 hours straight. I guess this makes up for almost a week of sleepless nights due to my crazy finals. But then finals isn’t even over yet. Hope I survive yet another week.

    Mood : Mellow
    • You’ll do amazingly @dysphorie, just remember to work as hard as you can and do your best, also do take breaks when you need to relax and get as much rest as you can too, everything will be OK, keep going and don’t give up, I believe in you, I’ll always be here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update The best thing about this site is that no-one knows who I am, and I am both invisible and visible. Existing but at the same time, not there. It’s something I crave in the real world. View

    @oliver Thanks :D

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update I am surrounded by so many people and yet I feel so alone. It must be my powers of invisibility at work. View

    @oliver Thanks, man. I will try. :)

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update So apparently the guy I dated for a while, the guy I pined for, for almost two years after we stopped dating, has someone new. Great. Life is great. View

    @oliver Thanks man, really. You’re always there to make me feel better when I post depressive crap like this. Just know that if you ever need someone, you can message me anything, anytime, too. :)

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update I am surrounded by so many people and yet I feel so alone. It must be my powers of invisibility at work. View

    @strideintomyoffice Thanks, will keep that in mind. Same goes for you, if ever :)

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update So apparently the guy I dated for a while, the guy I pined for, for almost two years after we stopped dating, has someone new. Great. Life is great. View

    @rinseandrep Yeah, I thought so too. It just kinda sucks, I guess.

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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    So apparently the guy I dated for a while, the guy I pined for, for almost two years after we stopped dating, has someone new. Great. Life is great.

    Mood : Crushed
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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    I am surrounded by so many people and yet I feel so alone. It must be my powers of invisibility at work.

    Mood : Alone
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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 12 months ago

    The best thing about this site is that no-one knows who I am, and I am both invisible and visible. Existing but at the same time, not there. It’s something I crave in the real world.

    Mood : Relieved
    • Everyone deserves to be seen doing wonderful things and being acknowledged for helping others, you do too @dysphorie, keep being the kind and sweet angel that you are, Blah is so lucky to have you, I’ll always be here if you need to chat, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @oliver Thanks :D

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    Dysphorie posted an update 3 years, 12 months ago

    It’s funny, but helping people… in this site, or in real life, makes me feel better. Gets rid of the ugly black hole inside me. How… nice.

    Mood : Satisfied
    • @dysphorie That’s wonderful to hear. Everyone has problems of their own, and it’s so heart touching that you are determined to help others and reach out to them even if you go through a lot yourself. Keep up the good work. I’m here for you if you need me. Stay beautiful & strong. ❤️

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    Dysphorie posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    I hate this.

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t let sadness get you down @dysphorie, you are such a special and beautiful person who deserves all the love in the world, you don’t deserve any pain hun, focus on the things that make you happy and show everyone your bright and amazing smile, things will be OK and everything will work out, you are a survivor who will overcome and who…[Read more]

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    Dysphorie asked “It’s getting worse.4 years, 2 months ago

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    Dysphorie posted an update 4 years, 3 months ago

    Haven’t been on this site in ages!!! Swamped by insane college work. Don’t know what to feel anymore.

    Mood : Tired
    • It’s great to have you back on Blah @dysphorie, hope you are well, do try to get as much rest as you can, everyone deserves a break from work, you do too hun, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Dysphorie posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

    Sad, again.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Please don’t feel sad @dysphorie, you are such an amazing and remarkable individual who deserves all the happiness in the world, things will be OK, you can and will make it through tough times, you will beat all your struggles and you will win this battle, you are a survivor and fighter who never gives up, great things will happen to you and you…[Read more]

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    Dysphorie posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

    I recently realized that I was no longer doing things because I enjoyed them, but because they had to be done. How does one regain their lost passion?

    Mood : Crappy
    • I’m sure you will find that passion @dysphorie, try to focus on things that make you feel happy, content and positive, focus on things that make you smile, don’t let anything get you down, you are a truly amazing individual who deserves all the best in life, things will be OK, keep going and never give up, you are a survivor, great things will…[Read more]

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    Dysphorie answered question “Feeling Controlled.4 years, 5 months ago

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update Talking about relationship problems etc with a fellow venter/listener! It feels so good to be able to talk to someone like this, because I can’t do it with my own friends (Pathetic, I know) View

    I figured. :( I just wasn’t sure, you know. Maybe it was just me being too sensitive or being too easily offended or something. Anyway, it’s just, I’m already in college and everything, and it’s hard to find a friend like that now. I guess it would’ve been easier if I had friends like that ever since I was young – even just one. But thanks…[Read more]

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update Talking about relationship problems etc with a fellow venter/listener! It feels so good to be able to talk to someone like this, because I can’t do it with my own friends (Pathetic, I know) View

    I don’t know… I feel like I can’t even talk to them about that sort of thing. I literally can’t open up to them about anything deep and stuff because they already kind of make jokes or tease me about things that aren’t even that serious.

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    Dysphorie posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Dysphorie posted an update Talking about relationship problems etc with a fellow venter/listener! It feels so good to be able to talk to someone like this, because I can’t do it with my own friends (Pathetic, I know) View

    I understand this :( ( But you know how, when you’re telling your friends something kind of deep and they just… you know, make jokes? I know it lightens the mood but it also makes me feel as though they don’t actually want to listen.

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