I would try to break out of your comfort zone and go out to new places if you can @kira19, spread your wings so you can improve your confidence and self esteem Kira, I’m sure you will enjoy yourself and have a wonderful time with friends, keep smiling and always be the awesome person that you are Kira, you can do it, always believe in yourself…[Read more]

@kira19

You are definitely not alone in this. I’m an introvert, so this is one of my life’s biggest struggles.
I love my friends and love to do things with them, but making plans just leaves me anxious.

Hello! Even though it may seem like that, I can assure you’re not the only one feeling that way. I’m also a very introverted person and every time i plan going out with one of my friends i end up having second guesses about it, leading to its cancellation. I really love going out and spending time with time and i deeply appreciate their…[Read more]

i totally relate

Please don’t let mean trolls upset you @bouquet-of-garnets, this site is supposed to be a compassionate place where we support and be there for each other M, there are so many more kinder members of BT who are willing to help and listen to you, do report trolls to the admin and on the chat, inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk M, stay…[Read more]

I am usually a listener so there is not that much harm but it is still pretty annoying. Do you mean report them via that button in a chatroom? Because it does not work even after numerous reports, unfortunately.

You can report them on the chat @bouquet-of-garnets, although it is a bit annoying if it doesn’t work, I would report them to the admin, contact @blahtherapy and see what can be done (hugs)

Don’t let these trolls bother you, M. Oli is very right, there are way more people who want to help and be helped than trolls in BT. @oliver gave you an excellent advice; whenever you find one of these people, report them on the chat or to the admin. We have to keep this a safe and peaceful site for everyone. Stay strong, and I hope you had a nice day!