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    Hayden posted an update 9 hours, 54 minutes ago

    … Is it over?

    • I’m truly hoping that the spam will be gone soon @devilndisguise, the moderators should come back and remove it from BT or someone new should take over moderation of BT, we should find a way to make sure that this wonderful community is secure from spammers, bots and trolls, I want this community to always be a supportive, caring and loving…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 day, 4 hours ago

    where is the moderation of this website and why are they not taking care of this spam!?

    • @Invincible

      Unfortunately, the moderators basically abandoned the site. They don’t monitor it anymore.

      We can only hope that they come around to check in and see what’s going on. Other than that, Blahtherapy does have a Twitter, but I don’t know how easy it is to get their attention on there.

    • Indeed the spam is so annoying and frustrating @invincible, we should all try to keep contacting the moderators until something is done about this spam problem, unless someone new takes over moderation of BT and tries to solve this, I hope something gets done about this spam and this site gets back to being a place where we support and help each…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 day, 10 hours ago

    Although this will inevitably be buried within a bunch of nonsense (spam posts), I must say that I continue to have high hopes for this site. With memories of the bustling community we once used to have, I’ve held those hopes close to me for a very long time.

    For our actual members who are here for what the purpose of this site is, I hope you are…[Read more]

    • @blahmoderator1

      Haven’t been active in over a year, but hey, it’s worth a shot, right?

    • I agree with you @devilndisguise, I hope this loving and supportive community continues to grow with more kind and sweet people joining BT, I’m OK, my awesome friend Hayden, just trying to take one day at a time, hope things are well with you Hayden, always be the special, incredible and lovely person that you are Hayden, I’ll always be here for…[Read more]

    • Yea sheesh there’s so much spam on this site.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 day, 22 hours ago

    Completely sad and panicked over numerous things that are happening and falling upon me. It hurts and what is worse is when you turn to family and friends about it and absolutely no one can provide any recognizition of my existnece, emotional comfort or a distraction., nothing. no support whatsoever, just ignoring and that makes all of these…[Read more]

    • Please know that the BT community will always be here for you and so will I @invincible, we all love and care about you Cecelia and we want the best for you sweetie, your family and friends really should be there to support you Cecelia, you deserve so much better Cecelia, don’t let your struggles get you down Cecelia, you are such a beautiful,…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 1 day, 22 hours ago

    Not liking the look of all of this spam. Brings back bad memories about this site.
    The community has suffered great spam in the past; it’s actually what decreased the activity around here, years ago.

    Lately, I’ve seen it more active than it has been before that attack. I’d hate to see that be reversed once more.

    Mood : Disappointed
    • Exactly, there needs to be better moderation of the spam and maybe a way to report posts and users…

    • @Invincible

      Agreed. Best we can do is simply flag the users as inappropriate. It’s a shame that’s all we can really do, though.

    • Same @devilndisguise, something really needs to be done about the spam on here, I love this community, I want BT to continue to grow and thrive, to have more compassionate and loving members joining this community, the spam is so annoying, hope something gets done about it so it can be stopped, as @invincible says there should be better moderation…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted an update 2 days, 9 hours ago

    Poetry is such a relaxing outlet for me. Writing in general has always been, but I never used to be a huge poetry fan.

    Now, it just does wonders for me. There’s something relaxing about simply letting the words flow from my pen and onto paper, then making sense of it all. It’s like staring my problem directly in the face; I can smile and say…[Read more]

    • Keep using poetry to get your thoughts, emotions and feelings out @devilndisguise, the poetry you create will be so insightful because it truly comes from your beautiful heart, my wonderful friend Hayden, you will overcome your struggles by using the art of poetry to make things better and positive, you are using poetry as a good way to express…[Read more]

    • that is so great! i enjoy writing and writing poetry

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    Hayden posted an update 5 days, 12 hours ago

    Has anyone received any suspicious messages recently?

    • I received a message from someone called Marion George who says she works at the UN and gave an email address @devilndisguise, I found the message suspicious and deleted it, hope nothing like that has happened to you, my awesome friend Hayden, this community is supposed to be a place where we all help and support each other, not a place for…[Read more]

    • @Oliver Me too, Oli! Hope you’re doing swell. <3

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    mariko posted an update 6 days, 11 hours ago

    Struggling with alot of back pain. My parents believe it’s either a problem in my spine or kidneys. Tomorrow going to the doctor.
    So scared :(

    • Doctor check ups can be terrifying, especially because of the uncertainty of the diagnose. Try to do some relaxing activities before your appointment, Mariko: listening to music, take a stroll, drink something warm… And remember that they are there to make you feel comfortable, ease your pain, and help you as much as they can. I’m sure your…[Read more]

    • I don’t want to see you feeling unwell or in pain @marikofujimoto, you will make it through this, beautiful angel Mariko, please don’t be scared or afraid, you are so strong, brave and courageous, remember to always stay healthy physically, mentally and emotionally, take care of yourself sweetie, you will be OK Mariko, please know that I’ll…[Read more]

    • Good luck Mariko, I hope everything is OK and its nothing serious. Hoping the pain will go away too. Don’t be too scared, I’m sure it’ll be alright and it’ll be solved if there is a minor issue. ♥♥

    • @marikofujimoto

      I know it’s been about a day since you posted this, but I hope the visit goes/went well. :( Hopefully you’ll be relieved of your pain and it isn’t too serious.

      Best of luck.

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days, 23 hours ago

    its getting to the point where i cannot stand this anymore. i can’t take being silenced and disregarded by everyone it makes me want to die and just feel wanted for once and have a day that i can enjoy idk what to do.

    • Anyone who silences you isn’t worth it @invincible, I want to see you being treated with kindness and love Cecelia, please know so many people value, appreciate and care about you, I do and so does the BT community sweetie, we will always be here for you hun, surround yourself with compassion, empathy and hope, you will meet amazing people who…[Read more]

    • You said it yourself, Cecelia. You should not be silenced nor disregarded, specially by people who cares about you. It’s very hurtful, like little spikes that keep pricking you in every inch of your body. Despite this, try to keep your head up and make yourself clear to these people. Make them clear that their attitude it’s hurting you. Not…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week ago

    Had a really good morning! Just wish it didn’t end so soon…

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Glad you had a wonderful morning @invincible, so many more bright and amazing days are ahead for you beautiful angel Cecelia, keep smiling and always be the lovely, special and fantastic angel that you are sweetie, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week ago

    tomorrow

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow and always be the beautiful, lovely, special and incredible angel that you are @invincible, stay fantastic and always smile brightly sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    the fatigue that comes with depression & anxiety makes it so difficult to do things sometimes.

    • Don’t let depression, anxiety and fatigue get you down @invincible, focus on making each day wonderful Cecelia, surround yourself with the things that bring a smile to your face and that give you positive energy, you will make it through this because you are so strong, brilliant and amazing, hold your head up high and keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Going to therapy today. Quite scared. Is from my university, so assuming will be a good therapist. But never easy to put ourselves in a vulnerable place.

    • @marikofujimoto

      That is true. I hope you get through it well and you find that it works for you.
      Best of luck.

    • So true @marikofujimoto, it’s very brave to take that step. I hope the session goes really well, Mariko!!

    • It’s good to see you reaching out for help and support through therapy @marikofujimoto, I’m sure your therapist will be good as you talk through your thoughts, feelings and emotions sweetie, I’m so proud of you beautiful angel Mariko, everything will be OK hun, please know the BT community will always be here for you too and so will I, keep…[Read more]

    • So courageous, Mariko! I hope it goes well, good luck! You should be proud.

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    Hayden answered question “How do I get over people abandoning me in depression.1 week, 2 days ago

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    Hayden posted an update in the group Group logoVent It! 1 week, 3 days ago

    Tonight has not been well.

    I wish I didn’t have such lousy self-esteem. :/

    Mood : Sad
    • Please don’t feel sad @devilndisguise, you are such a beautiful, lovely and kind person who deserves to feel confident, happy and wonderful, my awesome friend Hayden, I want to see you truly smiling, please see yourself as we all do on BT, as a compassionate, sweet and angelic person who makes the world a better place Hayden, hold your head up…[Read more]

    • @oliver

      I will forever appreciate your positive and reassuring responses to my posts. You always manage to bring a smile to my face, even if just a small, simple one. Thanks for being so awesome, Oli. You’re a great buddy.

    • I’m sorry to read you had a tough night, Hayden. You can get through what made you feel that way, you’re a brave fighter who does not give up and it’s always here for us. Believe in yourself, you can do it! If you need to talk about anything or vent, my inbox is open ♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Yay! I am a common friend now with the golden wings! How exciting! I hope you all are doing well today, I am always here for you!!

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    I should be focusing on schoolwork but right now I am listening to music and it is very windy outside and its like the trees and bushes are moving to the music so I can’t help but move along with them and feel like I am coexisting with nature lmao that sounds weird but I would rather listen to music and dance with the tree branches in the wind…[Read more]

    • Do work hard and get things done, but remember to look after yourself too @invincible, it’s nice to see that music and the sounds of nature are making you feel relaxed and calm sweetie, keep letting those sounds soothe your mind hun, have a wonderful day and always be the perfect, special and beautiful angel that you are Cecelia, inbox me anytime…[Read more]

    • sotrue thank you Oli, I hope you are doing well!!

    • It’s so wonderful feeling connected with nature, being one with it. If we have the chance, we should enjoy more often the wind, the rivers, the trees, the grass, the flowers, the rain. It brings so much peace and a sense of accomplishment. I hope you really enjoyed this experience, Cecelia!!

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