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    DinoRaptor101 posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    A good conversation I I had that was emotional and exciting
    Discalimer, all names were changed to keep it anonymous.
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    Hey
    about an hour
    You
    Hi
    about an hour
    Venter
    I need some help. I feel weird.
    about an hour
    I feel emotionally drained and weird
    about an hour
    You
    Okay. but just to clear things out… are you seeking an ”advice” or an ”ear”?
    about an hour
    Venter
    Ear, mostly.
    about an hour
    I need to vent
    about an hour
    You
    Great
    about an hour
    Venter
    Thank you
    about an hour
    You
    I’m Dimitry. What’s your name?
    about an hour
    Venter
    My name is Hiro.
    about an hour
    You
    nice to meet you Hiro.
    about an hour
    Venter
    You too
    about an hour
    You
    Tell me about your situation take your time speak all the details.
    about an hour
    Venter
    Ok!
    about an hour
    Well, last night was really scary.
    about an hour
    What happened was, well I know this sounds stupid
    about an hour
    but there’s this girl on the Instagram, who I met through Instagram that I’m friends with.
    about an hour
    she uses to have a crush on me and stuff, until she started watching the walking dead and fell in love with a character on there and shoved me aside and treated me like I was a ”second choice” or something.
    about an hour
    suddenly she just started treating me weird.
    about an hour
    You
    what do you mean by weird? can you explain?
    about an hour
    Venter
    Well. she talked about me behind my back, told people she didn’t know me cause we aren’t friends in real life and that I’m annoying. she literally wrote to someone ”ugh…that weird Hiro kid just messaged me…ANNOYING AF LOL CREEP”
    about an hour
    and when I confronted her about it she freaked out and was like ”you hate me!!!!!! I didn’t do anything wrong wtf.”
    about an hour
    and she posts about me all the time when we fight and makes up lies so I decided to message the followers that she brainwashes into thinking I’m evil, and of course they went on my side. so she got mad and it’s just really bad. I feel like it’s an abusive friendship/relationship.
    about an hour
    whenever she does something wrong, and I call her out on it she somehow twists the situation into being about something I did wrong and she makes me feel guilty.
    about an hour
    she tells me I treat her like shit, and that I make her want to kill herself
    about an hour
    and sometimes, I feel really suicidal. like last night…. so I wrote ”I’m done with everything. I’m going to go kill myself.”
    about an hour
    You
    >. go ahead!!
    about an hour
    Venter
    its ok!
    about an hour
    You
    what happened after that!
    about an hour
    Venter
    don’t be
    about an hour
    Helen: your fucking mean you know that!
    about an hour
    You
    ^^ you’re nice
    about an hour
    Venter
    Renoa: instead of caring about people who want to kill themselves you’re like WOW YOU HATE ME YOU’RE INCONSIDERATE
    about an hour
    Helen: you don’t know that. every time he says it. he’s putting me through shit!! you are making me worse
    about an hour
    Renoa: omg the poor guy I hope he’s ok I’m freaking out. I need to go to school omg
    about an hour
    Helen: F U C K Y U
    about an hour
    Renoa: ”Fuck you” LOL
    about an hour
    Helen: hahahah guess what?! omg lol BLOCKING YOU OW
    about an hour
    Renoa: huh
    about an hour
    Helen: bye-bye ass
    about an hour
    Renoa: bye-bye ass LOL I’m lolling
    about an hour
    Helen: I wish I never talked to you, you people make me feel worse I need people making me feel better in my life
    about an hour
    Renoa: I need to message my friends about you wash
    about an hour
    and then
    about an hour
    I made another group chat
    about an hour
    of Helen and one of her friends.
    about an hour
    Helen: what’s going on
    about an hour
    friend:
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    Helen: this is to get my friend hating me!?
    about an hour
    friend: ????
    about an hour
    Helen: last time you direct messaged my friends you got them to know what I said about you. and they hated me. your fault
    about an hour
    You
    Wait, wait. Renoa made a group chat?
    about an hour
    Venter
    No, no
    about an hour
    You
    and he added Helen’s friends there?
    about an hour
    Venter
    No XD
    about an hour
    I made a group chat
    about an hour
    added Helen and one of Helens friends
    about an hour
    me: wow the guy just called me a cunt wow
    about an hour
    You
    oh ok. omg. what were you hoping for?
    about an hour
    Venter
    I told her friend everything that happened
    about an hour
    and I was hoping the friend would try to reason with Helen
    about an hour
    You
    I see… so you wanted to get justice
    about an hour
    Venter
    Helen: LOL! I love my friend!!! he needs to chill lol
    about an hour
    me: cunt isn’t a good word though. dude I’m shaking
    about an hour
    Helen: lol he swears for a living
    about an hour
    me: I need to break my phone I’m freaking out
    about an hour
    Helen: and I’m literally dying
    about an hour
    me: I feel weird
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    Helen: I feel like shit
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    friend: lol?
    about an hour
    me: goodbye world
    about an hour
    Helen: here you go again. stop with that. you KNOW it hurts others around you.
    about an hour
    me: and that’s ALLLLLLLLL THAT MATTERS. is it hurts you
    about an hour
    Helen: I didn’t come on this conversation to get beaten up and depressed by you
    about an hour
    friend: guys
    about an hour
    me: cause I’m in pain. I want to die but it only matters cause I’m hurting you
    about an hour
    Helen: I’m in pain and your friend and you make me want to kill myself!!!
    about an hour
    You
    you got to a point there
    about an hour
    Venter
    (I don’t get why she’s allowed to say she wants to kill herself but I can’t say it without being told I’m selfish??? but ok)
    about an hour
    You
    so she wants to kill herself because she cares for you
    about an hour
    Venter
    me: WHAT DO I DO IM SHAKING
    about an hour
    friend: GUYS STOP!
    about an hour
    me: HELP
    about an hour
    friend: I WANT TO
    about an hour
    me: HELP ME!!!
    about an hour
    Helen; you keep saying you’ll kill yourself don’t do it and you keep doing it
    about an hour
    Helen: wtf do you want me to do?
    about an hour
    friend: do you know what’s happening?
    about an hour
    Helen: no?
    about an hour
    friend: I feel so horrible right now
    about an hour
    Helen: same. you shouldn’t be dragged into this.
    about an hour
    friend: OK
    about an hour
    Helen: it’s not fair on you.
    about an hour
    friend:
    about an hour
    and at that moment
    about an hour
    I got the death wish message
    about an hour
    this one
    about an hour
    from Helen’s friend ”Hey, she told me how badly you make her want to kill herself. you need to fucking leave her alone. your homosexual fuck. I’m warning you, your cunt you fucked p big time leave her the fuck alone and leave all her friends out of it your cunt goes ahead and just go slit your throat and die cunt. say hi to Satan for me!”
    about an hour
    You
    oooooooooooh so that’s how it happened
    about an hour
    Venter
    and I literally, when I read it. I went into this weird. panic mode I literally can’t explain it
    about an hour
    I was shaking shuddering shivering nonstop
    about an hour
    stop
    about an hour
    my sister (who was in the room with me) noticed I was acting weird
    about an hour
    and took the phone away from me and she was like ”ok that’s enough for Instagram today”
    about an hour
    and I got physical and was slapping and kicking trying to get it back, screaming…
    about an hour
    and then I fell over onto my side moving weirdly?
    about an hour
    and she hugged me and tried to calm me down
    about an hour
    and I couldn’t stop crying
    about an hour
    and I like idk how to explain this
    about an hour
    it was really scary
    about an hour
    but I felt emotionless and… dead. idk
    about an hour
    and I couldn’t see
    about an hour
    idk how to explain it
    about an hour
    it was so scary
    about an hour
    and then eventually I felt normal again
    about an hour
    and I sat up
    about an hour
    still shaking though
    about an hour
    and I was like on my phone doing whatever
    about an hour
    and while I was doing whatever on my phone
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    I SMAKCED my sister in the face and pulled her hair and attacked her??? like I couldn’t control it
    about an hour
    and I continued what I was doing on my phone.
    about an hour
    it was so scary
    about an hour
    I never want it to happen again
    about an hour
    so then I wrote on the message ”omg……what your friend just wrote. makes me want to kill myself.”
    about an hour
    and Helen wrote ”yes he’s pissed!!! because you make me want to kill myself!”
    about an hour
    and I sent a screenshot of what he wrote
    about an hour
    and she wrote ”XD Not nice”
    about an hour
    me: you don’t know how I feel right now. I am ready to kill myself forever. goodbye.
    about an hour
    Helen: wait
    about an hour
    friend: NO! don’t die!
    about an hour
    me: I’m a homosexual fuck who needs to slit my throat and die goodbye
    about an hour
    Helen: why are you listening to those fuckers block them out….
    about an hour
    (when she tells lies about getting bullied at school 24/7 for loving a cartoon character. and she says she gets beaten up and told she’s fat and ugly)
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    and the friend wrote
    about an hour
    ”omg I feel so sick right now”
    about an hour
    Helen: same. this is fucked up.
    about an hour
    friend: I know…
    about an hour
    You
    is this the same friend from the group chat?
    about an hour
    Venter
    What? XD
    about an hour
    You
    the friend you mention now is he the same guy who was innocently pulled into this with the group chat?
    44 minutes
    Venter
    Yes
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    Helen: we should just leave the conversation. I mean, yeah he wants to kill himself and stuff but now we feel sick as fuck because we have to deal with him. we tried to help him, but now were dealing with this. who leaves the conversation first? XD
    44 minutes
    You
    okay. let’s call him Finn. so I don’t get confused.
    44 minutes
    Venter
    Friend: yeah, who’s leaving first?
    44 minutes
    and that was pretty much it.
    44 minutes
    so I woke up today
    44 minutes
    posted about it.
    44 minutes
    my followers messaged her asking what happened and why she did what she did to me
    43 minutes
    and I got this message from her
    43 minutes
    (she plays mind games which usually don’t work on me but it does when she does it it’s scary)
    43 minutes
    ”Look. this is beyond a joke at the moment, this is hurting me. you’re getting your friends to message me, I am blocking you and them all. it’s not doing me any good here. I will still talk to you! I still care for you! you have to understand that you are hurting me as fuck. I hope you’re ok!!!! and stuff!!! but I don’t want anyone else. and if you actually loved me none of this would have happened. you wouldn’t have let them message me. if you cared for me. that’s all.”
    42 minutes
    You
    okay. I have a question
    41 minutes
    Venter
    ”you say you don’t want to hurt anyone, but you hurt me really bad… I never thought you could have done this to me. you obviously don’t care about me or anyone. if you did, you would have never let this happen to me”
    41 minutes
    yeah?
    41 minutes
    You
    what does your sister think about all this?
    41 minutes
    Venter
    the same I think
    41 minutes
    we think Helen is abusive
    41 minutes
    You
    and is she of the same age group or older or younger?
    41 minutes
    Venter
    I’m 16
    41 minutes
    my sister is 17
    41 minutes
    You
    Well Your sister is probably very smart.
    40 minutes
    Venter
    She is!
    40 minutes
    I just, like she plays scary games. Helen does
    40 minutes
    You
    Well do you want to know what I think?
    40 minutes
    Venter
    like I’m gay, I only like guys. but she somehow made it so I liked her and asked her out, and she loved me so much and wrote how much she loved me but then randomly she stopped talking to me and treating me weird
    40 minutes
    what do you think?
    40 minutes
    You
    Helen loves you and she’s afraid of herself
    39 minutes
    Venter
    idk about that honestly
    39 minutes
    she says shit behind my back. and like ugh
    39 minutes
    You
    She wanted your attention so bad she called you creep because her feels for you are creepy AF
    39 minutes
    Venter
    No
    39 minutes
    she called me a creep behind my back not wanting me to know
    38 minutes
    You
    well that’s how girls ask questions. they say you’re a crap and then see how many will defend you
    38 minutes
    if a lot of people say good things about you than you’re not a jerk
    38 minutes
    Venter
    it’s scary how a fictional character from the walking dead
    38 minutes
    like how she replaced me with one
    38 minutes
    You
    yeah that is creepy too
    38 minutes
    Venter
    I use to be in her bio and stuff
    38 minutes
    and she use to post about how much she loves me
    37 minutes
    You
    Pretend to be Helen. what do you think she’s thinking?
    37 minutes
    Venter
    and she randomly changed it all to ”CARL<3 CARL
    19 minutes
    Venter

    19 minutes
    You
    Well . I have a friend Demor. from Qatar.. I never met her.
    19 minutes
    Venter
    Awwww
    19 minutes
    You
    we’ve been best friends since 8 years now
    19 minutes
    Venter
    Aww!’
    19 minutes
    I’m sorry to interrutp but
    19 minutes
    I’m just scared cause idk what that weird panic attack was.
    19 minutes
    You
    it was what it was a ”panic attack”
    18 minutes
    Venter
    I googled panic atttack symtoms and stuff
    18 minutes
    You
    and it’s pretty bad.. mom used to tell me to breath deep and focus on my breath so it goes away
    18 minutes
    it can stop your heart
    18 minutes
    Venter
    OMG thtas scary
    17 minutes
    You
    Yup.. very
    17 minutes
    Venter
    its the first time it happened to me though and I google my symptoms
    17 minutes
    and nothing came up
    17 minutes
    that’s the weird thing
    17 minutes
    You
    so you immediately forget everything and breathe and count your breath..
    17 minutes
    google for anxiety attack
    17 minutes
    Venter
    Okay
    17 minutes
    You
    you know I think you should play PC games.
    16 minutes
    Venter
    Which ones XD
    16 minutes
    You
    bladeandsoul.com
    16 minutes
    this was out on Jan 18 it’s so awesome!
    16 minutes
    and free.
    16 minutes
    Venter
    ll try it!
    15 minutes
    You
    Thanks Hiro.
    15 minutes
    you make me feel weird too
    15 minutes
    Venter
    what XD
    15 minutes
    You
    you and Helen care for each other.
    15 minutes
    your love is pain..
    14 minutes
    but love should feel good
    14 minutes
    Venter
    I don’t think its healthy
    14 minutes
    I’m trying to not reply to her messages
    14 minutes
    You
    instead of fighting who’s to blame .. you have to fight who will say sorry and make a nice thing out of it first.
    14 minutes
    I sent my crush a music CD of love songs I collected for her…. she still hates my guts.. but once she turns away she smiles .. *friend told me*
    13 minutes
    Venter
    idk she wont say she’s sorry she keeps saying its my fault’
    13 minutes
    You
    because it’s a rule in girl world.
    13 minutes
    it’s always the guy’s fault.. ”never argue with a woman, you will always lose that argument”
    12 minutes
    Venter
    -_-
    12 minutes
    You
    it’s a saying you can google it.
    12 minutes
    Venter
    I know
    12 minutes
    You
    So.. we guys usually play the mature card.
    11 minutes
    Venter
    what
    10 minutes
    You
    … hmm how to explain
    10 minutes
    Venter
    huh
    9 minutes
    You
    you should say .. something like..
    9 minutes
    Venter
    ?
    8 minutes
    You
    Helen I know you like me, I like you too, let’s not fight anymore.
    8 minutes
    O..O
    7 minutes
    I think Renoa would think the same.
    7 minutes
    Venter
    Really?
    7 minutes
    You
    Yeah. because both the ”Friend” Renoa and your sister think it’s silly.
    7 minutes
    we all know Helen started it… but we also all know that Helen will never say sorry.
    6 minutes
    Venter
    Yeah.
    6 minutes
    You
    so it’s either you stop talking to each other.. or you become the mature guy who steps down.
    6 minutes
    Just like dancing.. she’s falling … you catch her…
    5 minutes
    Venter
    I just sent her ”Helen I know yuo like me, I like you too, lets not fight anymore.”
    5 minutes
    *you
    5 minutes
    You
    :> awesome.. give her some space now.
    4 minutes
    she needs to ”think”
    4 minutes
    Venter
    True
    4 minutes
    You
    right know Helen will be… ”WTF just happened????” he’s not going to kill himself???
    4 minutes
    Venter
    Yeah
    4 minutes
    You
    XD Let her stew a little.
    3 minutes
    Venter
    XD
    3 minutes
    You
    don’t write anything tonight.. she has to think.
    3 minutes
    Venter
    I wont
    3 minutes
    I like, cant be friends with her anymore though. like, its seriously abusive.
    3 minutes
    I’m scared
    3 minutes
    You
    well you might die and stuff….
    3 minutes
    but hey that’s fun…. it’s better than boring.
    2 minutes
    Venter
    like, this happened before. we fought (not this bad though)
    2 minutes
    and then she was like ”I’m sorry its all my fault”
    2 minutes
    and I was like ”OMG YES SHES BACK TO NORMAL!
    2 minutes
    and she instantly became distant and abusing
    2 minutes
    You
    It’s called period
    2 minutes
    girls have that quite often
    2 minutes
    Venter
    lol
    2 minutes
    like she always holds this strange grudge about whatever I do wrong
    1 minute
    You
    we just don’t make it a big deal… and then they act like nothing happened
    1 minute
    Duh!! you like another girl or guy over her? she’ll blow a fuse
    1 minute
    she’ll do ”Imma kill my self right this second Hiro! catch me!! ”
    1 minute
    and then call you a creep… because you don’t give her the attention she ”deserves”

    • I would delete this, even if the names are anonymous, some people might recognise the person from what’s been said in the chat. I don’t see why you feel the need to post a chat up here.