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    Hayden posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    My father has been cheating on my mom. He admitted to it yesterday. The day before, she caught him texting a woman. He denied it, but she saw it…

    It isn’t just one. It’s several. He ”doesn’t know what he wants”, but continues to allow her to cook for him and do his laundry. He’s threatening to throw us all out. Threatened to ”throw out” our pets. He’s treating us all like strangers now that he’s been caught.

    Mom doesn’t want to lose our home. She doesn’t want to leave our dog behind. Neither do I. My father has been very aggressive with him lately. Fuck, I don’t know what we’re going to do.

    They’ve been fighting. He yells at her so much and belittles her. I hate him so much.

    Mood : Anxious
    • I’m so sorry that is happening to you and your family @devilndisguise, your father has no right to do that to you or your mother, my awesome friend Hayden, he should try his best to make things work with your mother so you can remain a loving family, he shouldn’t be aggressive towards your dog, that’s not good at all Hayden, I would try to come up with a plan that will make things better for both yourself and your mother because you both deserve to feel safe in your home and not have the stress of having to deal with arguments and fighting, everything will be OK Hayden, I hope things work out for you and your family Hayden, try to stay as upbeat as you can and keep smiling, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)