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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    AHHHHHH HES HOME

    Mood : Bouncy
    • Glad you are with someone who makes you happy @guava, everyone deserves lovely people in their lives, you do too Guava, hope things continue going strong for you and this person, keep being positive and remember you are a fabulous angel, I’m always here if you ever need to chat about anything :) (hugs)

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    I feel like on Blah, to be a good means of support you must not only be motivating, but give some advice, listen to the problem at hand and chat to the person as a friend, too, not JUST about problems. Sometimes the simple “Hey, how are ya?” can be much more motivating than “Stay strong” because you’re asking them how they feel, not assuming…[Read more]

    Mood : Bitchy
    • You’re actually right @guava . Your post has influenced me a lot to change. It made me realize a lot of things :)

    • As long as we are helping and supporting each other, that’s all that matters @guava, keep being fabulous, I’m always here if you need me :) (hugs)

    • @guava Maybe not specifically an ’how are you’, I read something about how scripted social interactions will get you a ’I’m fine and you?’ answer rather than an true one, I’ve been working on asking something different.

    • I agree completely, people react differently to the same approach. Here’s hoping people are getting a varied response to their posts.

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    Sometimes I’m not sure if I’ve thought something or said it aloud to myself… Am I the only one? Haha insanity coming early here!

    Mood : Confused
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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    Roll on Tuesday! :D been miserable but just can’t wait to see next week :)

    • I’m sure you will do absolutely amazingly @guava, hope you have a wonderful week, keep being extraordinary and lovely Guava, I’m always here if you ever need me :) (hugs)

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    Guava and Profile picture of TrevorTrevor are now friends 8 years, 2 months ago

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    Guava joined the group Group logoI feel so alone. 8 years, 2 months ago

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    5:02am and my kitty comes in for some hugs. I’ve been feeling lonely lately, so this is nice :)

    Mood : Loved
    • Aw that’s so cute and adorable @guava, cats and kittens are so awesome hehe, please don’t feel lonely, you are a lovely and special angel who deserves to be surrounded by positivity and happiness, remember I’m always here if you ever need to vent or chat about anything, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    I really apologise for disappearing- I actually fell pregnant in October and found out in November :) Unfortunately though, I miscarried two weeks ago- just before my first scan. I will get round to replying to missed messages, I just really hope you guys can understand. Deepest apologies x

    Mood : Crushed
    • I’m so sorry that this happened to you @guava, do take as much time as you need Guava, remember we are all here to support and be there for you on Blah, message me anytime if you ever need to chat, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @Oli thank you so much for these kind words- they’re a blessing in disguise! I’ve been super stressed all day and to come back to these kind words mean a lot :) thank you! Sending love and hugs your way x

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    Apologies for lack of activity recently, I’ve been preparing for an upcoming wedding with my partner’s family so things have been HECTIC! I will get round to everyone on Monday once the event has past and I’m back from being out of town, I hope everyone is well :) if anyone needs someone drop a message tonight or over the weekend and I will…[Read more]

    Mood : Exhausted
    • It’s all good. ^-^ I hope the event goes well, and have fun!

    • Hope everything goes well for you @guava, keep smiling and keep being the beautiful angel that you are Guava, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    Morning coffee as I sit and reply to some new posts :) I hope you all had a wonderful start to the week! x

    Mood : Cheerful
    • Mondays have never been the best thing for me so haha :P Hopefully your week goes well too :D

    • Mine could’ve been a better start, but I’m hoping it looks up instead of down. I hope you had a good start too! :)

    • Hope you are having a fantastic Monday @guava, I’m a coffee person as well hehe, do have a wonderful day Guava and keep being the lovely and sweet angel that you are, message me anytime if you want to talk, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    Monday has not been merciful! Tuesday better bring me some nice times or else Wednesday will be bringing me a bottle of Vodka! I hope everyone else’s week got off to a wonderful start! My mailbox is open to anyone in need of a friend :) x

    Mood : Alone
    • I want to see you having days filled with brightness, laughter and happiness @guava, you are truly an incredible angel and a special person who deserves the best in life, hold your head up high and focus on the things that put a smile on your face, you can do it, good days are ahead for you hun, believe in yourself because you will make it,…[Read more]

    • @Oli Thank you so much! That’s very sweet of you to say. really made my day! Apologies on getting back to you late though, was a very very busy day and I see today being even busier! Wishing you a wonderful day :) x

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    Guava posted an update 8 years, 6 months ago

    Scotland’s pretty this time in the morning!

    Mood : Amazed
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    Guava joined the group Group logoMusic 8 years, 6 months ago

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    Guava started the forum topic Why not.. in the group Group logoWhat is your story? 8 years, 6 months ago

    Okay so I kinda on a whim decided I’m gonna write this so here we gooooo :D
    It’s hard to post this, as some things are listed here that I don’t talk about to anyone…
    I was always a happy child, even though […]

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    Guava started the forum topic I need someone to talk to who can relate? in the group Group logoSexual Assault Survivors 8 years, 6 months ago

    Okay so I wasn’t sexually assaulted as such, I was sexually abused from the age of five and a half till around 13/14… My life’s been such a blur since then, things have been going so downhill so fast and I […]

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    Guava joined the group Group logoSexual Assault Survivors 8 years, 6 months ago

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    Guava replied to the forum topic Would this classify? in the group Group logoSexual Assault Survivors 8 years, 6 months ago

    If you do not consent, or you say no before/during it, then yes it classifies. People may disagree as you were in a relationship with her, but it does classify as sexual assault as one party of the activity […]

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