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    Tonettanetta posted an update 7 months, 4 weeks ago

    I don’t feel like much anymore. My health is at its worst, I wake up stressed every day, I’ve either lost interest in my hobbies or I’ve stopped them b/c I’m tired of my husband critiquing them and it’s better to not do them than have him constantly over my shoulder criticizing me…idk. I’m just really tired.

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    • Please take care of yourself @trojenta95, you are such a wonderful person who deserves to feel positive and happy mentally, emotionally and physically, your husband shouldn’t criticize your hobbies, he should be supportive and loving so you can be upbeat about and put your heart into your hobbies, everything will be OK and things will work out for…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago

    Tell my dad all week I have work at a certain time, but he claims I told him a completely different time. Now I am getting yelled at for it because he refuse to say that I was right. I told him loud and clear what time I have work yet he doesn’t recall the time I said for a completely different time. Why should I be blamed for your mistake when…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your father really should treat you with love, dignity, care and respect @lilwisher93, you don’t deserve to be shouted or screamed at, I would try to talk calmly to him and see if you can work things out in a respectful way, I’m sure everything will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Your dad shouldn’t be that annoyed about being wrong about your work time. Wait until he is more calmed and try to solve eveything and be at good terms with him. Sending you good vibes so everything goes fine! Plus, since he might forget about your work time again, you can write a note or send a him in a message, so he can check and not blaming…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 3 months ago

    Just wondering how do break off with a guy you been dating for so long that you no longer love because of the way he had been acting lately and lost interest to him

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    • I would be honest with him and tell him how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you feel the relationship isn’t working anymore because you just aren’t as close with him as you used to be, you are a wonderful person who deserves a partner who will show you unconditional love and support, hope everything works out, you will be OK, inbox me…[Read more]

    • Let your partner know how are you feeling about your relationship, and let them also express themselves too. If you think that you two can work things out, give the relationship an oportunity. But if it’s it’s something definitive, then put an end. You deserve to feel comfortable and happy, there’s no positive thing about force yourself to be…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 4 months ago

    Decided to come back to talk to these lovely people. I hope all is well

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

    Once again I get into an argument with my parents. Regarding my boyfriend. I happy yet they make these unnecessary comments because I mentioned I am going to hang with him. Some comments should be kept to themselve. They think they know everything about love. Let me enjoy my life.

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    • I would talk to your parents about your boyfriend @lilwisher93, let them know how happy he makes you and that he cares about you, hopefully once your parents come to meet him, they will see he is a decent person, everything will be OK, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    I am feeling a bit dis-stressed right now. There been this huge tension between my family for the last few days due to the fact what my youngest bother has done. I feel like I getting the some of it from them even though I did nothing wrong. For example I tried to help make dinner tonight and I messed up adding the wrong soy sauce to the meat and…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Your family should treat you with all the love, respect, care and kindness in the world @lilwisher93, they shouldn’t yell at you over something trivial and minor, everything will be OK, surround yourself with things that make you happy and keep smiling, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    Clearly I can’t be behind sech because I just got biched at for not locking the door completely. One lock was locked and my dad was home. I still get accused of lying about running late this morning yet it’s true that I was.

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    • Your parents really should treat you with respect, love, care and dignity @lilwisher93, don’t let them be mean to you or call you horrible names, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel upbeat and happy, try to have a fantastic day and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 years, 11 months ago

    Nothing beats getting biched at by my parents for claiming for not doing anything in the around the house.

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    • Your parents really should treat you with dignity, respect, care, love and kindness @lilwisher93, I’m sure you do help out around the house, try to stay positive and don’t let negativity get you down, smile, hold your head up high and surround yourself with brightness, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    A bit annoyed at my dad. He is trying to get a hold of my finances and I have no say in it. I am 23 and I should have control over on how I should save my money. He wants me to put in a retirement find type thing.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I would try to talk to your father about how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you want to look after yourself and your finances, hopefully he will listen because you deserve independence, I’m sure things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    A few months a go my bf and I took a break and during that time i was not my best. It was a darktime for me. I told a person who i thought was my friend how i was feeling during that time. Eventally me and my bf got back together. Fast foward to last week where i wanted to hang with this friend. I asked if she wanted to hang out with me via…[Read more]

    Mood : Infuriated
    • Your friend really should have stuck by you @lilwisher93, don’t let anyone treat you badly or use things against you, surround yourself with compassion and positivity, smile and do your best to keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 sometimes friends can be hypocritical. It happens. You have to still be a friend to her so that means respecting what she has to say but by all means do that suggest that you have to do as she say. Make yourself as happy as possible.

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    I haven’t posted on here in a while mainly because things were getting better. However, my chronic pain is ten times worse and I’ve felt like my husband isn’t there for me like I sometimes need him to be. I don’t know how to talk to him about it. Each time I try he gets sad and has said how I feel has made him want to kill himself for not…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • I would talk to your husband about how you feel @trojenta95, let him know that you are a team, a couple that is there to support and love each other during difficult times, be as honest and open with him as you can, look after yourself too and stay healthy, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Tonettanetta posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    My husband’s depression causes him to feel sad about not being able to cure my chronic pain instead of comforting me and helping me around the house. He’ll feel really sad about not doing things for me but never do them. Is it wrong to feel lonely and overwhelmed by this?

    Mood : Depressed
    • @trojenta95 your husband needs to seperate things. After all, aren’t you the one with a chronic illness? You’re the one in pain all the time… he should at least help. Helping would make him feel usefull and obviously help you alot. You need to be straightforward with him about this

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 4 years, 2 months ago

    Welp I just possible lost a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ clearly someone is acting like a child. Oh well

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    • You are a wonderful person who deserves good friends around you @lilwisher93, surround yourself with compassionate people who will stick by you no matter what, I want to see you happy and truly smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 such a shame. I have a friend like that as well.

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