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    Cecelia posted an update 1 day, 6 hours ago

    ⚠️STOP hanging around people who make you feel DUMB because they are scared you are smarter than them! STOP hanging out with people who make you feel INSIGNIFICANT because they know you have the potential to succeed past them.

    ⚠️DROP the toxic people. DON’T settle⚠️

    • Do get rid of toxic people @invincible, you deserve compassionate people in your life Cecelia, friends who will love you unconditionally, who will stick by you through anything, anyone who tries to make you feel small or insignificant isn’t worth your time sweetie, you are such an incredible and beautiful angel who shines brightly, remember the…[Read more]

    • Praise this post! You are very right Cecelia. People who make you feel like that, do not deserve to be around you. Always surround yourself by people who love you unconditionally, care about you, and make you a better person.

    • ♥♥♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 days, 6 hours ago

    It’s really discouraging and anxiety-inducing when people ruin your day… I wish I didn’t allow people to ruin my mood so easily … But I’ll get over it.

    • Don’t let horrible people bring you down @invincible, you are so much stronger than anyone who tries to break you sweetie, surround yourself with kindness, love, empathy and compassion Cecelia, remember you are such a beautiful and incredible angel, the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, focus on all the good things in life…[Read more]

    • Hope you are feeling better now, Cecelia.

    • Hi Cecelia, Just remember you are as good or better then these people. No matter what their position or status is. Don’t let their actions ruin your day, Don’t give them that power.

    • As @oliver and @unconditionalnorth said, don’t let these people ruin your day or mood, Cecelia. Of course, sometimes they break our defences and get through us. When this happens, take a very deep breath, and remember that you are a kind, strong, talented, and compassionate person. Then, do something that makes you happy or spend time with…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 days, 23 hours ago

    It’s actually hard not to talk to people even if they are terrible for/ to you? Especially when nighttime and loneliness come in.
    Anyway … hope you all have a great weekend! ♥♥ Stay safe!

    • Thank you, Cecelia. Hope you are doing well.

    • It is hard, and it is even more if you still feel something for them. As you said, this especially happens at night time because we feel lonely, and our minds start to bombard thoughts like mad.
      I wish you a great weekend too Cecelia. Keep being so amazing and brave! <3

    • Please don’t feel lonely and don’t let bad thoughts get you down @invincible, you deserve to talk to people who will show you kindness, love, compassion and empathy, please know the BT community will always be here for you during the good times and hard moments, you are so loved by everyone on BT sweetie, everything will be OK, stay fantastic…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days, 23 hours ago

    Let go of someone I once cared about but it turned into exhaustion & annoyance. Now they are gone, and I feel good… though I feel alone… my friends aren’t there, as if I want them there because of how they treat me, and my problems just don’t seem important enough for my family. Guess I will just think to myself & listen to music…

    • Do surround yourself with people who will love and care about you unconditionally @invincible, I want to see you feeling truly happy Cecelia and being around compassion and kindness sweetie, do get rid of toxic people but remember to not bottle things up, get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way hun, the BT community will always…[Read more]

    • Cecelia you’va taken a very important, and brave step: leave a relation/friendship that was damaging your health, and happiness. I hope your family finally realize that your problems are important, and that they have to be there for you. It’s not that they do not care, it’s just that sometimes it takes a little bit of time for some people to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    Just a reminder that I care about all of you here and if you ever need to vent or get support, I am here for you! ♥ Never feel like it’s annoying if you message me or ask for help.

    • Always be the kind, lovely, compassionate and sweet angel that you are @invincible, you do so much for all of us on BT, this community is so lucky to have such a beautiful person like Cecelia supporting and being there for others, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent sweetie, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • That’s very sweet! You’re always so kind and helpful Cecelia ♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    ♥ my family

    • Awwww that’s so sweet, nice and adorable @invincible, it’s good to see that your family is treating you well with love and care Cecelia, do have a fabulous day and keep being the special angel that you are Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • To love and to be loved by family. Such a great feeling. So happy for you Cecelia!! <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    Been having a good weekend, I really appreciate my immediate family & friends.

    Though today I feel exhausted, uncomfortable and sad … hopefully I can feel better tomorrow… I may need to remove some people in my life who cause me such feelings

    • Glad you had a wonderful weekend @invincible, do relax sweetie, surround yourself with people who will bring you love, positivity and compassion, you truly deserve to be cared for, valued and appreciated Cecelia, it’s good to see that your family and friends are being kind to you, keep going and always smile hun, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me…[Read more]

    • It’s so wonderful you are surrounded by a caring family, and friends, who you appreciate Cecilia! Ponder about those relationaships that make you feel sad, and if you conclude it’s the best for your health and happiness, go for it. It’s hard to take separate ways, although it’s even worse to continue on a friendship/relationship that it’s…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    Got 2 hours of sleep last night because of a subtle irritating noise coming from near my window. Went on for several hours, sometimes sounded like a bug moving/flying (but it wasn’t) or a light dripping. Tried to see what it was today and still no idea… but my anxiety kept me up thinking the house was going to collapse or combust so that is…[Read more]

    • Try to get a good rest and sleep @invincible, take care of yourself physically, emotionally and mentally sweetie, I’m sure you will find the source of that noise and everything will be OK, I want to see you feeling good Cecelia, always be the lovely, fantastic and special angel that you are, find ways to soothe and calm your mind, put yourself at…[Read more]

    • thank you so much Oli!

    • Anxiety is indeed a colossal bitch… Especially at night time, when it works at its full potential. I hope you could have taken a well deserved rest after that Cecelia, and that your mind is quieter! When mine starts thinking about the worst case scenarios, I try to remember to myself something I learned some time ago: worst AND ideal case…[Read more]

    • thank you so much! this is so true and means so much ♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Had a good Halloween. It’s too bad I couldn’t experience fall/halloween season with enthusiasm this year due to numerous, exhausting things going on, but I am ready for November to be nice, fun & productive. Going to try and accomplish things, also by making lifestyle changes to better my mental & physical health and feel energetic and good.…[Read more]

    • It’s great to see you determined to better yourself and make positive changes in your life @invincible, glad you had a wonderful Halloween sweetie, I want to see you truly happy and making each day as bright as possible Cecelia because you deserve all the best out of life, hold your head up high and know so many great times lie ahead for you, you…[Read more]

    • I know you will accomplish all of your goals Cecelia. I and everyone in BT believe in you. You are very determinate, positive, and hard-working, so don’t ever doubt about yourself. Keep your goals in your mind and don’t rush anything. Go one at a time, and you’ll achive them before you can realize. I feel so proud and happy for you Cecelia!

    • Thank you Oli & Marta so much, you guys really encourage me and make me feel better. You two deserve nothing but great things ♥ I am always here for you both & truly appreciate you guys.

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