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    Oli posted an update 1 day, 3 hours ago

    I’m a failure and a loser :(

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    Oli posted an update 6 days, 12 hours ago

    I’m so lonely, friendless, alone, sad and depressed, it’s hopeless and so truly terrifying, what’s going to happen to me or become of me?, I’m just pathetic, a loser, a recluse and hermit, life is just so meaningless and pointless :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    I’m so lonely, depressed, alone and friendless :( , it’s hopeless for me and always will be. :(

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    Oli posted an update 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    I’m so alone, depressed, sad and lonely, I always will be that way no matter what I do or how hard I try, It’s so hopeless because I will NEVER be able to find true happiness in life :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • You of all people deserve happiness. Look at all the time you spend lifting others up! Be kind to yourself and remember you deserve love

    • Just as blackdog said to you, you deserve true happiness Oli. You uplift everyone’s mood when they need it, and believe in everybody’s strength. Believe in yourself too <3. You are full of virtues, and you deserve to appreciate them, as well as we do :) .

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    Oli replied to the forum topic A ship without captain in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 4 months ago

    I second both of you on this @blackdog and @m1s1m3, this site has been abandoned for so long, it’s so sad compared to what BT used to be a few years ago, I would put myself forward to be moderator if that is what […]

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    Oli joined the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 4 months ago

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    Rain posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    Wow… I really needed to talk to someone and the people in the chat just disconnect me. That’s helpful and not hurtful at all. Tells me how much people care. Thanks

    • That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

    • If they disconnected on you on purpose, it’s definitely not right to leave someone hanging when they are venting and in need of a person that’s willing to listen to them. I’m sorry this happened to you Rain. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open <3 @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 6 months, 1 week ago

    Getting really tired of the colleague who says ”you were gonna switch shifts with me, right? Don’t forget to write it down.” when she didn’t even ask me! And when I react confused (obviously) she acts as if I knew and agreed. This isn’t the first time she pulled this, and with this kind of attitude, I don’t want to accommodate to her wishes at all.

    • I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • ”No, I’ve never agreed to switch shifts with you. If you’ve wanted one, you should have asked in the first place ;) ”. She does not deserve a different answer than that. Her attitude it’s despicable, she’s making you feel guilty and gaslighting you.

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    Rain posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    Imagine spending years working up the nerve to ask for a therapist and not getting one

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    Rain posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    It’s ridiculous that the only therapy my health insurance partially covers is at a center where they refuse to help me because I’m autistic. Not only do they discriminate, they’re also basically saying you can only get therapy if you’re not mentally ill. (I hate that term, by the way. I’m not ill. My brain is just wired differently.)

    • That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • And to whom exactly are they offer therapy then? To the ones whose mental health is okay and, by definition, do not need therapy? It’s deplorable that a center dedicated to look after people’s health has that kind of protocols. I hope you can find a good therapist as soon as possible @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 7 months ago

    Even introverts need human interactions.

    Mood : Lonely
    • felt that, are you doing alright?

    • I’m okay, just lonely sometimes.

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      We all deserve to feel loved and cared for so we feel less alone and lonely @teamtennantgirl and @little-angel-2, I’m a reclusive, shy, awkward introvert so I know how lonely and depressing life can get, especially when if like me, you have absolutely no social life and you stay in your bedroom all day, remember you are both amazing and you both…[Read more]

    • Sometimes it’s nice being alone, we even need it every now and then. But feeling lonely it’s a hard thing, especially if you live far away from your loved ones. If you need to talk, my DM’s are open @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 7 months ago

    Being an adult is an endless cycle of paying bills and replacing things.

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]

    • I’ve been feeling the same for a long time. We work endlessly to earn enough money just to pay for basic things we need to live (such as water, food, electricity, rent…), and if you have something left, it’s gone in contingencies as a broken car, something in the house to fix… I try to enjoy the little things to keep these thoughts at bay…[Read more]

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    Rain posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    I don’t need another cat, I don’t need another cat…but what’s one more?

    • Omg always get another cat. Always.

    • While animals are cute and adorable, I would only get another pet if you feel you can handle the responsibility of caring for a new animal @little-angel-2, have many pets do you have Rain?, I have 1 cat, I’m sure you will do what you feel is right and comfortable for yourself and any new lovely animal you bring into your home, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

    • @aprxl you’re right

    • Another cat equals to more happiness. So yes,if you can take care of them, adopt another cat ^^

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    Rain posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    My boss messaged me late today to let me know there’s some kind of info thing or whatever tomorrow morning and that it would be good for me to be there. This really frustrates me because it’s so last minute and I already planned my week. If I had known a few days in advance, I would have included it in my schedule, but if I go now it’ll mess up…[Read more]

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    • I would talk to your boss and let him know how you are feeling @little-angel-2, I know work commitments are important but they really should give you enough time and notice so you can attend and prepare, do speak with your boss and see if they can make alternate arrangements for you Rain, hope things work out positively for you, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

    • I completely understand you Rain. I feel the same about last minute changes when I already have my week organized, so I can do everything I want to do with the less stress possible. It’s understandable that you are worried about not being there, but if you cannot include that activity in your schedule, that’s it. Your boss should have told you a…[Read more]

    • Yes, exactly. It’s so stressful and I can’t just drop everything else to make room for something I didn’t know about until the last minute. I ended up not going. I hope they don’t see this as a bad thing at work. It’s their responsibility to notify me in advance.

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    Rain replied to the forum topic Name Game with Tv Shows in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    All of us are dead

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    Rain posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    I’ve been working for the past two months and while it’s what I wanted, it’s taking a toll. I’m under a lot of stress and it’s exhausting to act as if I’m not drowning. And I’ve been asking for a therapist for years, but I don’t have access to one.

    • I would keep working hard but remember it’s OK to take breaks, to rest and relax when needed @little-angel-2, don’t be afraid to reach out for help and support when you need too, I’m sure you will find the right therapist for you, someone who will listen to you non-judgementally and who will offer solutions to overcome struggles, please know the…[Read more]

    • I’m not afraid to reach out for help. I literally don’t have access to a therapist.

    • I’m so sorry to hear you cannot acces to a therapist when you most need it Rain. Mental health should be a priority inside the healthcare system (even more during these times), but as usually, we are left on our own.

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    Rain posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Sometimes I feel like nobody cares and I could disappear without anyone noticing.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Please don’t think like that @little-angel-2, I care about you Rain and so does the BT community, please don’t fee lonely, you are loved by so many Rain, I don’t want to see you disappear Rain because I would miss you Rain, you are on this earth to do great things and make all your dreams come true Rain, you are such a brilliant, awesome and…[Read more]

    • Sometimes it feels like that. That we could just vanish into thin air, and not a single soul would notice our absence. Sometimes these feelings and thoughts cannot be avoided. But somebody always does care, even if it’s just a single human being. You have people that care about you Rain <3

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    Oli posted an update 8 months ago

    My past haunts me
    My present saddens and depresses me
    My future depresses, saddens and terrifies me because it’s so non – existent
    It’s all so hopeless and pointless :(
    I don’t have a life, I exist with no plans, hopes or dreams
    Just trying to survive each day without hope or positivity :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • You’ve put so much of your effort into helping others with an encouraging word. You deserve all the blessings and love the world can provide

    • The three of them can be terrifying and unnerving to think about. They have the power to petrify us and make us unable to keep going on. Try to focus in the little things dear Oli. You are an amazing human being, that only pursues for good in this world, and to help any soul who needs it. I and the BT community care about you my friend. You…[Read more]

    • I struggle with the exactly same things. It’s sometimes better, sometimes worse.

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    Oli posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    I’m struggling, it’s all so hopeless and pointless… :(

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    Oli posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    It’s all so hopeless, I’ll forever be alone in this world :(

    Mood : Depressed
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