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    Oli posted an update 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, I can tell you, without a trace of doubt, that you are not any of that things. You are generous, kind hearted, selfless, wise, positive, honest, respectful, righteous, empathetic… You have so many virtues. It’s difficult to see them when the mind makes all the efforts to let you see just the bad side. But me, and everyone in BT, are here…[Read more]

    • @Oliver – Your life holds no meaning? Oh, Oli! I don’t know much about what’s going on outside of here in your personal life, but I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we see none of these faults in you.

      Your life has so much meaning to it. You have dedicated at LEAST a decade of your life logging on here and offering your kind,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 11 months, 1 week ago

    It’s all so hopeless. :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 11 months, 1 week ago

    I just want to give up. :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 11 months, 1 week ago

    I’m so sad, things never work out for me, they always end up going badly no matter how hard I try. :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry Oli, please don’t let a few bumps in the road discourage you from living up to your full potential. Unfortunately life sucks a lot – but you have endless support from us here – we all genuinely care about you and know that you will succeed in life and things will look up for you. Have the faith we all have in you – but it’s OK to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 2 months ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, it’s hopeless for me :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli you are a fantastic friend, who is caring, generous, helpful, warm hearted and sincere. It’s very difficult to deal with these feelings, even more during this cold season. Remember that I’m here for you if you need it my friend. You’ve done, and are still doing, so much for every member of the BT community, and you can count on us too to help…[Read more]

    • I second this!

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I feel so lonely and alone :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    I’m a failure and a loser :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    I’m so lonely, friendless, alone, sad and depressed, it’s hopeless and so truly terrifying, what’s going to happen to me or become of me?, I’m just pathetic, a loser, a recluse and hermit, life is just so meaningless and pointless :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    I’m so lonely, depressed, alone and friendless :( , it’s hopeless for me and always will be. :(

    Mood : Depressed
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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 8 months ago

    I’m so alone, depressed, sad and lonely, I always will be that way no matter what I do or how hard I try, It’s so hopeless because I will NEVER be able to find true happiness in life :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • You of all people deserve happiness. Look at all the time you spend lifting others up! Be kind to yourself and remember you deserve love

    • Just as blackdog said to you, you deserve true happiness Oli. You uplift everyone’s mood when they need it, and believe in everybody’s strength. Believe in yourself too <3. You are full of virtues, and you deserve to appreciate them, as well as we do :) .

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    Oli replied to the forum topic A ship without captain in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 1 year, 10 months ago

    I second both of you on this @blackdog and @m1s1m3, this site has been abandoned for so long, it’s so sad compared to what BT used to be a few years ago, I would put myself forward to be moderator if that is what […]

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    Oli joined the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 1 year, 10 months ago

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    Rain posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    Wow… I really needed to talk to someone and the people in the chat just disconnect me. That’s helpful and not hurtful at all. Tells me how much people care. Thanks

    • That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, those on the chat should be there to help and support you, they have no right to be rude and disrespectful to you Rain, please know that I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Rain, you deserve to feel positive and happy Rain, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

    • If they disconnected on you on purpose, it’s definitely not right to leave someone hanging when they are venting and in need of a person that’s willing to listen to them. I’m sorry this happened to you Rain. If you need to talk or vent, my DMs are open <3 @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 2 years ago

    Getting really tired of the colleague who says ”you were gonna switch shifts with me, right? Don’t forget to write it down.” when she didn’t even ask me! And when I react confused (obviously) she acts as if I knew and agreed. This isn’t the first time she pulled this, and with this kind of attitude, I don’t want to accommodate to her wishes at all.

    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      I would ignore her and focus on doing the shifts that suit you @little-angel-2, always work hard Rain and don’t let anyone distract you from doing what is right for you, hope your colleague doesn’t bother you going forward Rain, everything will be OK, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • ”No, I’ve never agreed to switch shifts with you. If you’ve wanted one, you should have asked in the first place ;) ”. She does not deserve a different answer than that. Her attitude it’s despicable, she’s making you feel guilty and gaslighting you.

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    Rain posted an update 2 years ago

    Imagine spending years working up the nerve to ask for a therapist and not getting one

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    Rain posted an update 2 years ago

    It’s ridiculous that the only therapy my health insurance partially covers is at a center where they refuse to help me because I’m autistic. Not only do they discriminate, they’re also basically saying you can only get therapy if you’re not mentally ill. (I hate that term, by the way. I’m not ill. My brain is just wired differently.)

    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      That’s not right at all @little-angel-2, they should accommodate and support you Rain, I hope you manage to find the right therapy that truly helps you, please know that I will always be here for you Rain and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Rain, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • And to whom exactly are they offer therapy then? To the ones whose mental health is okay and, by definition, do not need therapy? It’s deplorable that a center dedicated to look after people’s health has that kind of protocols. I hope you can find a good therapist as soon as possible @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 2 years ago

    Even introverts need human interactions.

    Mood : Lonely
    • felt that, are you doing alright?

    • Rain replied 2 years ago

      I’m okay, just lonely sometimes.

    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      We all deserve to feel loved and cared for so we feel less alone and lonely @teamtennantgirl and @little-angel-2, I’m a reclusive, shy, awkward introvert so I know how lonely and depressing life can get, especially when if like me, you have absolutely no social life and you stay in your bedroom all day, remember you are both amazing and you both…[Read more]

    • Sometimes it’s nice being alone, we even need it every now and then. But feeling lonely it’s a hard thing, especially if you live far away from your loved ones. If you need to talk, my DM’s are open @little-angel-2

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    Rain posted an update 2 years ago

    Being an adult is an endless cycle of paying bills and replacing things.

    • Oli replied 2 years ago

      I know how you feel @little-angel-2, being in an adult has been so depressing for me, especially lately, my situation is sadness, unemployment, loneliness, depression and stress Rain, but try to remember about all the good times and happier moments in your life Rain, focus on the brightness that lies ahead and knowing that all your dreams will…[Read more]

    • I’ve been feeling the same for a long time. We work endlessly to earn enough money just to pay for basic things we need to live (such as water, food, electricity, rent…), and if you have something left, it’s gone in contingencies as a broken car, something in the house to fix… I try to enjoy the little things to keep these thoughts at bay…[Read more]

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