Hope things are okay,.

Telling anyone to go cut themselves is only adding to the pain, I don’t think your words will have much effect on rain but still they are not nice words to hear, your words have power use them for good, if you can’t help stay silent, if you want to empathise say I can relate to how your feeling, but don’t add to the pain. If your not ready to…[Read more]

IThat’s exactly it, your telling her to cut herself when you don’t know her history and that’s incredibly dangerous, I wouldn’t go telling an alcoholic to go drinking either, I would encourage them not to and tell them how proud I am of them for staying sober for so long, but if they did slip up, I would tell them that it’s okay, having a…[Read more]

@tragic I have had depression most of my life and understand pain in all of it’s intricate details, and spent years self-harming and I’m telling you that it’s just a vicious cycle, it only helps for a very short while but it brings new battles for tomorrow and makes the situation worse. It can cause feelings of guilt and shame and doesn’t…[Read more]

@tragic that is some very bad advice, cutting yourself won’t solve anything and there are healthier ways to feel better. Although I would never judge anyone for doing so, I definitely wouldn’t be advising them to do so because no one deserves to be in pain.

Lordy your getting some comments today! Everyone’s fuck’s up and makes mistakes, part of being human, but depression can magnify those mistakes and make them seem like catastrophe’s which often they are not. As long you’re trying your best that’s all you can do, head up and keep swimming *hugs*

@little-angel-2 Hope your okay, hun, deep breaths and don’t listen to haters or trolls.

@tragic I don’t care how your feeling-you do not take what your feeling how on others- not cool.

You can share it with me any time, dark thoughts often fester if left bottled x

I’be often thought child psychology would be my dream job too but to be honest I think keeping that professional boundary would be too hard for me, so I satisfied that need by volunteering with thme. I’m telling you that because I truly do belive there are always options. You do deserve to have a job that you don’t dread going to or at least…[Read more]

But if you hadn’t made that choice would you now be able to see that this was the right choice for you? I know things have been difficult for you but your dream job is still attainable, if you have a degree already it can make it easier to get the qualifications you need to do the work you want to do. That sounds like a good goal to have, might…[Read more]

I think it is pretty normal not to want to go back to a job you don’t like and it makes you anxious. What would be your dream job?

You deserve better!

*hugs* hope you feel better soon.