It saddens me to read this. You are the one person who has always been active on BT for years. You give good advice, you care for everybody. But you can’t live your life here. Listen to me Oli, I mean this in the nicest possible way; Get off the fucking computer and live your damn life. What’s the point of helping people if you can’t help…[Read more]

I told myself I’d never write to anyone on the Blah again. But Oli I have to write for you.
You have always been here. Whether I want it or not. You’re friends with practically everyone- everyone knows you on the Blah, you hand out cyber-hugs almost as much as I breathe. You’re unbelievably positive; this is the only time I’ve ever heard you…[Read more]

You can also create your own forums or groups that people can join.

You read people’s profile, friend them and start messaging. You could also comment on different forums and groups or play games and wind up meeting lots of people you can connect with.

I didn’t mean force, I meant that it kind of makes an overly big deal about recruitments. And I think its nice that women are now required to join now.
Sorry if I’m offending you or something. I lived in Denmark for a few years but I was quite young then so my opinions may be somewhat unjustified.
Other than that, what do you plan on doing…[Read more]

You should discuss with professionals if it’s advisable for her to go. If it’s not, then that’s a good thing for you, but if she can don’t hold her back if it’s something she really wants to do. You should never stand in the way of the dreams of others.
BTW, I’ve always found the Scandinavian military requirements unrealistic. Come on,…[Read more]