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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update So it turns out I have borderline personality disorder, am full on transgender and managed to piss my boss off. What an amazing week it has been. View

    Please don’t let your struggles get you down @cocoon, you are such a fabulous person who deserves happiness in life, do your best to hold your head up high and know the days, months and years ahead will be filled with brightness and opportunity for you, believe in yourself and be proud of who you are, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update do you ever feel like a stranger to yourself? I am not enjoying things again. I feel like I don’t know who I am because I don’t know what I actually like anymore, anything I try seems to […] View

    @cocoon so many times :( , you’re not alone.
    But you have lovely people here who will give you company and help you, so if you ever need help we’re here

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update do you ever feel like a stranger to yourself? I am not enjoying things again. I feel like I don’t know who I am because I don’t know what I actually like anymore, anything I try seems to […] View

    Do your best to stay positive and keep going @cocoon, you will find yourself and the things that make you happy, everyone deserves hope in life, you do too, everything will fall into place and you will make all your dreams come true, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 12 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I can’t tell if my friends like me or not. I mean they say they do but then don’t talk to me outside of seeing me in person and either don’t respond to my texts or take a really long time […] View

    Everyone deserves compassionate and good friends around them, you do too @cocoon, try to stay positive and keep smiling, your friends really should contact you and talk to you, hopefully they will, you deserve all the best, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I’m so bored of feeling absolutly nothing. View

    Be positive, upbeat and show the world that you are full of brightness and hope @cocoon, I want to see you smiling and being the fantastic angel that you are, things will be OK, remember you are a warrior who never gives up, show everyone how truly brilliant you are, you will make it, always believe in yourself, feel free to message me anytime if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I just got home from uni. And now I’ve been reminded why I have no confidence and can’t stand up to people. Thanks mum. View

    Don’t let your mother be horrible to you @cocoon, she should treat you with love, care, respect and dignity, I would try to talk to her about things, get her to see things from your point of view, hopefully she will listen to you, I want to see you being given support by those closest to you, I’m sure things will be OK, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I feel you guys need an update. I’m pretty good, I’ve managed to at least start forming friendships and my anxiety has been steadily going. I don’t panic as much anymore and I’m not […] View

    @cocoon I’m so proud of you <3 and you're absolutly right! things do get better with improvment ,self love, and time. And I'm very very proud of you that you are being able to stay positive and moving forward

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I feel you guys need an update. I’m pretty good, I’ve managed to at least start forming friendships and my anxiety has been steadily going. I don’t panic as much anymore and I’m not […] View

    Glad to see things are going well for you @cocoon, hope they continue going fantastically, you can do it, keep going and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 8 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I feel you guys need an update. I’m pretty good, I’ve managed to at least start forming friendships and my anxiety has been steadily going. I don’t panic as much anymore and I’m not […] View

    @cocoon
    3 months can really make a difference!
    I’m glad to hear you’ve been turning your life around, and that things are working out now as a result. :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I can’t find any weird people at my university. Weirdos and strange people are the only people I can really be friends with. Freshers week is nearly over and I’m alone. View

    I’m sure you will find wonderful people who will love to be your friend @cocoon, everyone deserves supportive and nice people around them, you do too, be positive and smile, everything will work out, I wish you all the best at university, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mintcat posted an update I keep feeling I’m not doing enough with my life, we’ve only got a limited time alive and I’m wasting it on fanfic and projects that’ll never be finished, and what if I don’t enjoy the job […] View

    You’ll get a great job that will make you happy @cocoon, do your best to be positive and have a bright outlook on life, everything will work out and things will go amazingly, you can do it, keep going and don’t give up, you will beat all your struggles, you are a survivor who will overcome, there is always hope, I’m always here if you need to…[Read more]