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    mariko posted an update 1 day, 7 hours ago

    What keeps me together is my cat.

    • Do surround yourself with all the things that bring you happiness, positivity and joy @marikofujimoto, it’s good that you have a special pet in your life to bring you comfort sweetie, remember to always hold onto the wonderful things in your life that puts a smile on your face hun, please know I’ll always be here for you and so will the BT…[Read more]

    • SAME girl

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 19 hours ago

    Sometimes I miss the old Blah. There were so many sweet members who I’ve never seen again..
    I wonder what they’re doing and if they’re ok.

    • I feel exactly the same as you @marikofujimoto, so many compassionate, kind and sweet members of BT have left this community, I too wonder about them and how they are doing, I wish this community could go back to being really active and having all those kind members come back to BT, I just hope those who have left are doing OK and things are well…[Read more]

    • If I’m honest I think about BH quite a lot but when I extend a hand as a listener most people tend to want a female or they are spamming nomsense, I lost a lot of interest but I miss the happiness I could bring to people.

    • @a-sad-minion unfortunatly many people come to this website to flirt with women. Which is just wrong.
      I’m glad you’re still around and being awesome by helping others.
      You make a difference. Always remember that :)

    • @oliver couldn’t agree more. Wish it was a bit more active.
      At least we still have each other

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    mariko posted an update 2 days, 20 hours ago

    Who ever said that being young and in love is the best… no comments.

    • Everyone deserves to be loved, appreciated and cared for @marikofujimoto, your partner should give you all the support, encouragement and happiness in the world sweetie, you are so valued and special Mariko, I want the best for you and so does the BT community, you truly deserve to be someone’s first priority Mariko because you are worth it and…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 days, 23 hours ago

    Good morning. I was in a car accident. The cars were damaged but physically I am fine (as well as the other person). Emotionally … I could be doing better. I feel a bit in shock, a little sad and rather insecure. I kind of feel dumb and ashamed… though I am so grateful that my family have been so kind and supportive to me. These things happen,…[Read more]

    • Awww, I’m so sorry that happened to you @invincible, glad to see that you are OK and not hurt in any way, please don’t feel bad or upset Cecelia, like you said, traumatic life events do happen sweetie but you will overcome it because you are strong in mind and body, do stay positive Cecelia, rest, relax and take care of yourself hun, everything…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 week ago

    I genuinly hate people.
    Lately have been massive anxiety issues, which are tiggered by anger.
    Even people I care about have been infuriating me.
    Let me be me. Don’t try to change me, fuck off.

    Mood : Angry
    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Don’t let mean people make you upset @marikofujimoto, you are such a beautiful, lovely and fantastic angel who deserves to be treated with love, care, compassion and respect by others, so many people appreciate and love you Mariko, I want the best for you sweetie and don’t want to see the meanness of horrible people break you, hold your head up…[Read more]

    • I suffer with the same frustrations. Even people who are very close to me, people I love. Such as a my mother, and siblings. It is important to at least attempt to see the glass as half full. While they may be ignorant in their ways, they are saying things that TO THEM are in your best interest.

      My best advice would be to take it with a grain…[Read more]

    • @celticcowboy669 thank you. I’m glad I’m not the only one in a situation like this.
      I’m just afraid my anger will take over me. Like I become a toxic person somehow..
      Has been extremly hard for me lately. But I’m trying to handle it.
      I’ll take your advice and hopefully things get better

    • @oliver thank you. You’re always a sweetheart with your words and constant support.
      Means the world to me

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    Not having a good day. Anyone want to talk?

    • What’s on your mind @marikofujimoto, I don’t want to see you feeling down, upset or sad sweetie, you can always talk to me about absolutely anything Mariko, you are such a beautiful, amazing and incredible angel who deserves all the happiness in the world, please don’t let the bad times get you down, stay positive and always shine hun, you can…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 2 days ago

    How do I solve this

    • You will solve all your battles and come out so much stronger @invincible, don’t let anything bring you down or stand in your way Cecelia, you are a fabulous person who truly deserves to smile and feel beautiful, everything will be OK sweetie, hold your head up high, believe in yourself and never give up, remember you are a survivor Cecelia,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    The fact that I am more afraid of the verbal taunts from my family than the reality of getting hurt speaks volumes and is sickening. I feel as if my fear and my life and almost all the suffering I feel is due to other people. How they treated me and now the fear of how they will treat me. How do I stop giving them so much control?!!

    • Your family have absolutely no right to be horrible towards you @invincible, don’t let fear and the meanness of others control you sweetie, focus on being around positivity, love and brightness, so many amazing people who will show you the kindness you truly deserve are out there, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will…[Read more]

    • thanks Oli. Today has been good except for a minor issue that has happened, but I am trying not to let the harsh treatment from others get me down <3

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Another thing I learned is be real to yourself. Is hard to not be ashamed of some stuff. I was always ashamed of liking music, and as 23 enjoying plushies and cutesy stuff. But I’m happy now, once I accepted myself.
    Be weird, be random, be original. Be you.

    • Always be yourself and don’t let anyone make you feel differently @marikofujimoto, be proud of being quirky, unique and original Mariko, as long as you are truly happy, that’s what matters sweetie, love and embrace every part of yourself and your bright personality, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Want a better life? get rid of toxic people. Seriously. Is better to be alone, in the best company ever (which is yourself) than to be with people that would stab you in the back in a second.
    While you don’t find loving and really caring people, just hang out with yourself.
    Fuck people who only look for you when they need to. Fuck people who…[Read more]

    • Do surround yourself with real, compassionate and kind people who will always stick by you no matter what @marikofujimoto, everyone deserves good friends around them, friends who will talk to them about both the good and bad things in life, you do too sweetie, I want to see you truly feeling amazing either with others or by yourself Mariko because…[Read more]

    • So true Mariko you are saying some REAL stuff that everyone should hear!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks ago

    ALL I EVER DO IS BE THERE LIKE A TRUE, CARING FRIEND. Because I do care. AND I GET TREATED SO POORLY FOR IT.

    God, I hate hate hate this. I’ve been bred to be a dependent person who seems to be not allowed to feel for myself. I wish I didn’t, but I can’t help it when the ones I care about treat me like absolute garbage.

    • Oli replied 2 weeks ago

      I don’t want to see you being treated badly by anyone @invincible, you are such a beautiful, caring and compassionate angel who deserves to be surrounded by people who will show you love, kindness, empathy and positivity, do get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way sweetie and don’t let anyone stop you expressing yourself…[Read more]

    • @invincible girl fuck that person. You always seem super caring, you know deep down you deserve better!
      Much love <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    Feeling sick from the heat. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. I plan on standing up for myself a few times to change some irritating things going on.
    The highlight of my day has been liquid iris nail polish lol.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, it’s pretty hot here too in the UK, do look after yourself Cecelia and stay cool sweetie, do stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, smile and hold your head up high with confidence hun, things will change for the better and everything will be OK, always be the beautiful, incredible and special…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    I wish people would be more considerate about how I can only get things done when I am not distracted and I am SO easily distracted.

    • Try to stay focused on getting things done as best you can @invincible, you will do amazingly Cecelia, don’t let anything or anyone stand in your way sweetie, I want to see you feeling wonderful, please know you will be successful no matter what happens, everything will be OK Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    ’Tis a sad world where people will so easily and quickly take the smile right off of your face.

    This is my life, my decisions and my way. You are to respect that.

    • Make decisions and life choices that will benefit you and truly make you happy @invincible, don’t let anyone interfere in your life Cecelia, you should always do what makes you feel good sweetie, hold your head up high, surround yourself with positivity and never give up, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • As you said Cecilia, you are the only one that can lead your life. Make the choices that you think are the best and don’t let anyone make them for you. Also, it’s true what you said about how quickly an unfortunate comment, person, event, etc. can erase someone’s happiness. The good part is that there are a lot of things that can bring back…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    Maybe I shouldn’t continue on with an estranged relationship with a certain family member of mine. Her and I see the world in a very similar way. With hope and love for the beauty of earth.
    It’s just she had hurt me by betraying me and neglecting me emotionally when I was young and needed it. I do not think she realizes this, but maybe I can…[Read more]

    • My only concern is that she is connected to the side of the family I strongly deteste and want nothing apart of. Like I said, just keeping in touch. Not like I need to tell her anything more than just sending inspirational quotes and interesting videos as we often did in the past.

    • I would only maintain contact with her if you are really close, if she treats you right and makes you happy @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and kind angel who deserves a family that loves and supports you unconditionally sweetie, I want to see you being appreciated and respected by those closest to you Cecelia, hope everything works…[Read more]

    • Keep the relationship at a level that you feel comfortable. Sometimes we force ourselves to be around people because we feel bad about ending it, but that can have even worse consecuences and hurting us. It looks like you are very determined and know well how to lead that relationship so you are not hurt anymore. Just don’t let other people…[Read more]

    • thank you Marta and Oli, this means so much. ♥you are so incredibly helpful and supportive!

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    I just love it when I finally get to focus on something I have struggled with for days, just to be yet again distracted and anxious from loud POPPING noises of fireworks outside. Love it, thank you so much you disgusting neighbors. It’s not even JULY yet….

    • Don’t let your struggles get you down @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and making each day bright, beautiful and wonderful Cecelia, you will win all your battles because you are a survivor sweetie, your neighbours really should be considerate and respectful, try to focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally…[Read more]

    • It’s really frustrating when something like that happens, when your mind is finally focused in an important task and all of a sudden it’s all over. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and keep working on, I know you’ll be focused again in less than you think dear. Don’t give up!!

    • Thank you so much! ♥♥♥♥

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