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    lovelymommy posted an update 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    I hate the state I live in and my daughters father isn’t willing to move. His only solution is okay then we need to break up. That is hos go to for anything that doesn’t go his way and it pisses me off. We live in a state where the cost of living is so much we live with his parents and I am so sick of it. I believe we should be on our own in a state we can afford to live in to give our daughter a great quality of life that she can’t get living here. I wish he could just be an adult about it for one second but instead he just wants to live with mommy and daddy for the rest of his life and I can’t do that! I feel so lost and confused and hurt. How does he make that choice so easily. We have been together for 10 years and he can say goodbye just like that all because he isn’t getting is way. Do I really mean that little to him? I just can’t handle this anymore.

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    • I would talk to him about how you are feeling @cherokeeg491, he really should try to be independent and live in a place where you feel happy, that you can afford and that will make things better for you and your daughter, living with his parents in the long term honestly isn’t sustainable because you deserve to live together as a loving family without any stress, let him know how you want things to be so you can both come to an agreement that will truly help your situation, be as honest and open with him as you can, hope everything works out Cherokee, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey I used to live in Cali I was a gang member there I moved to get away from everything just think to yourself everything is going to be ok and remember u are always loved