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    lovelymommy posted an update 5 years, 5 months ago

    Unsure of what to do I fell like my life is falling apart!! My daughter has been having horrible temper tantrums my mother in law acts like she owns the world and every one should bow at her feet. Makes my daughter cry by picking on her then gets pissed off when she does cry??!?!?!?! WTF is her problem? My father in law lost his job and is now home every day and he spoil’s my daughter so much she knows if she cries he will give in so of course she is always crying and even when we tell him no he still does it. Yes it’s there house but its our daughter and their kids turned out so spoiled and self centered ther youngest age 23 doesnt pay a single bill doesnt buy his own food doesnt even pay for gas!! He gets thrown in jail for dui and they bail his ass out! Comes home at 4am after partying all night with black eyes and lost cards and phone they say everyone be quite he is sleeping then buys him a new damn phone!!! I do not want my daughter to turn out this way and I have told them that plenty of times yet they do not listen!!!! And my Fiance and I do not see eye to eye on how we wil handle our daughter. I think we should try and speak calmly to her nd explain why she is in trouble and he thinks he need to instantly yell and spank and get in her face. And even when she has calmed down he will usethat tone and say I am serious you better be good and the whole cycle starts again!! We need to move out but the only place we can afford is 2 hours from here in the middle of no where and my fiance is not willing to settle until we can find a btter place but i am seriously loosing it here I ma not sure how much more of this i can take!!! I need to either get out of this place or they need to listen. I am at my whits end with it all i am never happy any more I dont want ot live my life like this!! I dont know what to do anymore and when I try to talk to my mom about it she just ignores me My Fiances tells me to stick my thumb up my ass and I have no friends that i can talk to abou tthis I am seriously alone and loosing it!

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    • this is quite alot to deal with, you can talk to me, just send me a message at any time and i will try to help you to the best of my ability. this is a promise. i may not respond right away but i will respond

    • Please don’t ever feel that you are alone @cherokeeg491, if you need to talk or need a friend, I’m always here, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong and keep your head up :) (hugs)

    • Thank you :) I am better today I was just having a rough night and no one to talk to

    • Thank you for your concern it was one of those nights where everything seemed to go wrong but all is better now :)