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Cathellos
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People don’t really want sound advice. They want a yes bot, someone that will agree or further enable them, to do what they already want to do. If you suggest a different outlook on things, then you’re wrong or judging them. Shame. View
Yeah, that pretty much happens all the time. But then, you can always play around with words to make them buy your opinion.
Do your best to help others by giving out wise advice that will help someone make the right decisions @cathellos, as long as you are trying to guide them in a positive way, that’s all that matters, you are doing wonderfully, I’m always here if you need to chat (hugs)
@cathellos Listening and giving advice are two different things, you could ask people what would they prefer you to do, and if they say ’just listen please, no advice’, you can leave