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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    Anybody know what that awful feeling in your chest/stomach is? I always get it randomly and I don’t understand why. It’s usually when im sad or nervous.

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      More than likely, it is probably the nerves in those areas. Strange thing when it comes to mental feelings is that they can also cause physical discomfort. That awful feeling you mention, I’ve experienced more times than I can keep count. Sometimes you can just become so upset or nervous that your body reacts physically to it.

    • Please don’t let nerves get you down @caramel4, try to stay positive and focus on all the things that bring you brightness and makes you smile, surround yourself with things that will calm you and make you feel relaxed and at ease, everything will be OK, hold your head up high, take deep breathes and keep going forward, you can do it Mel, always…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    i want to punch something or someone

    Mood : Angry
    • I don’t want to see you angry or upset @caramel4, you are such a wonderful, awesome and special person who deserves to feel happy and positive Mel, stay upbeat and focus on all the things that put a bright smile on your face, surround yourself with good things, hold your head up high and keep going forward, everything will be OK Mel, always…[Read more]

    • Aw, I’m sorry, I know how that feels. When you’re angry make sure to surround yourself with things you like i.e. music, a hobby, and just remember to breathe in and out and look up something that may make you happy or forget about the situation/person that has made you angry. For example, cute animals, funny videos or pictures, if you like to…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I really hate this guy in my class. He’s so perverted and makes me uncomfortable. I wish he could just leave me alone. I’m too scared to tell any of the teachers in fear that he’ll get angry at me and probably do something. Plus I don’t think they’ll believe me. He acts so innocent in front of them. I don’t know what to do. I try avoiding…[Read more]

    Mood : Uncomfortable
    • Reading that this person it’s treating you like that it’s infuriating. That kind of behaviour does lead to nothing good, and you don’t deserve to live in fear because of this… Miserable being. Do tell about it to someone you really trust, and try to find a solution to stop this behaviour. And never think people would be angry at you. YOU are…[Read more]

    • Please tell someone about what this disgusting guy is doing to you @caramel4, he has absolutely no right to put his hands on you inappropriately and tell you inappropriate things, what he is doing to you is sexual assault, he should leave you alone Mel, as @m1s1m3 says, you are the victim here and you deserve to be heard, please reach out to…[Read more]

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      That absolutely disgusts me. Almost nothing angers me more than a person violating another like this.
      I know you’re afraid to tell anyone, and trust me, do I understand that fear. But what he’s doing to you isn’t right and it isn’t going to stop, otherwise. Trust me when I say, if nothing gets done about it, the situation will only…[Read more]

    • I agree with @m1s1m3 and @devilndisguise, do stand up for yourself because this horrible, evil and disgusting guy has absolutely no right to treat you like that @caramel4, do shout, scream and physically defend yourself if he comes near you Mel, please tell someone about this situation Mel, the BT community will always be here to support you Mel,…[Read more]

    • @caramel4 that’s called sexual harassment and is a crime. You need to tell people. If you’re that scared try to record him or secretly take a pic of him doing that (I know you can’t in class but this is a self defense thing).
      Talk to a therapist in school or someone you feel will listen.
      Be strong, you can do this. I’m right here for you if…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I feel like my friends are upset and I don’t know what to do. I want them to be happy but, all I can do is listen. I’m not good at comforting people and that makes me feel useless.

    Mood : Sad
    • Please don’t feel like that @caramel4, you are not useless Mel, always be the compassionate, sweet and kind friend that you are, offer your friends a shoulder to cry on, let them know that you will always be there for them, if your friends ever need someone to talk too, let them know that you are there to listen, support and give them advice, you…[Read more]

    • @caramel4

      Sometimes having someone there to listen is all a person needs. You don’t necessarily have to give each and every one of them advice on the matter.
      By simply being there, you’re already doing the best that you can do. You’re a good friend for at least offering them that much.

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I feel so lonely. I feel like everyone is having fun, and i’m being left out.

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel lonely @caramel4, we all deserve to be surrounded by good friends, compassion and love, you do too Mel, do go out into the world and meet as many new people as you can, I’m sure anyone you meet will love you for who you are, please know you are amongst friends in the BT community, we are all here to support you, stay positive…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I fucking hate it here. It’s not safe here. School is not safe for me. I hate all the torment here. I hate almost everyone here. I feel like they’re all my enemies. I feel watched and talked badly about all the time. I hate that. I hate that i’m always so paranoid about that here. I hate all those hateful letters in my locker everyday. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Afraid
    • I don’t want to see you being picked on, bullied or tormented at school @caramel4, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness by your classmates Mel, please talk to someone in the school who you can trust, someone who will help you, I want to see you feeling safe and at ease, you truly deserve so much better, do reach out for help and…[Read more]

    • I’m sorry you are going through this. I would talk to people you can trust about this and see how they can help because this isn’t fair to you all this torment you are going through at school. You can vent anytime here to us on Blah and we are always here to support you

    • It’s terrible that you’re going through so much suffering, Mel. Not feeling safe in a place that’s supposed to be safe for you it’s one of the worst experiences ever. Try to open up to someone you can trust and talk to them about your situation, so you can find some help and a solution. And if you need to vent, my inbox is open. We are all…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    Okay so, I really really like this boy in my class, but he likes someone else and jkewhbf I feel like crap. Sometimes I get jealous when he’s around the other guy and then I feel bad. I love him a lot, but I don’t want to always be clingy around him.

    Mood : In love
    • I would form a close friendship with him and see what happens @caramel4, let him know that you just want to get to know him Mel, hopefully as time goes on he will come to feel the same way about you, stay positive and keep going, you can do it Mel, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Mel posted an update in the group Group logoVent It! 1 year, 4 months ago

    I feel as if everyone that is very close to me always isolates themselves from me in the end. I don’t understand why. I don’t understand what i’m doing wrong. I always try to be nice and there for them always, but they always leave in the end. Their reasoning’s are stupid too. Most of the time they leave me because they start to grow hatred…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • Anyone who leaves you or abandons you isn’t worth your time @caramel4, you are a wonderful person who deserves caring, compassionate and kind people around you Mel, people who will stick by you through thick and thin, good and bad, please know that the BT community will always be here for you and so will I Mel, surround yourself with love and…[Read more]

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    Mel posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I’ve been thinking about things recently. I don’t know if I should listen to them or not. I feel like a should, but something tells me I shouldn’t. I feel sick and tired of them telling me things all the time, especially at night. They ALWAYS come at night. It scares me. They never leave me alone. I just want to be happy for once. I want to be…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • You deserve true happiness and positivity in your life @caramel4, don’t let anything or anyone tell you differently Mel, surround yourself with hope and joy, you will overcome all the pain and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high because you are a survivor Mel, keep going forward and always believe in yourself, you can do it, don’t…[Read more]

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