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    BlackRabbit posted an update 3 years, 6 months ago

    Serious question… So the fiance and I have been together off and on for 2 years. He’s always told me he would NEVER hang out with another female by himself. Even if I gave him permission to do so. Last week he called and asked if he could hang out with the neighbor (2 females) I said yes because I didn’t believe he would do it. He hung out with them the whole time I was at work drunk cooking for them etc etc. He’s never done that before. My question is does he actually love me. The last time we broke up.. that same day he was on POF receiving messages and sending messages to multiple females. Mind we also fight argue almost every day. Bad arguments not just fussiness. Idk what to do. I want out but it’s going to hurt. Since I’ve been with him I haven’t been able to hang out with anyone or talk to anyone I haven’t had 1 me day since we’ve been together. Advice please.

    • If you feel that this relationship is truly what you want, I would stick with him @blackrabbit, but if you feel that the spark is gone and you don’t love each other anymore, I would move forward with your life and break things off with him, try to talk to him about things and see what happens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @blackrabbit If it sucks, you don’t need a foolproof reason to leave, all those behaviors can be right or wrong but you don’t need to figure it out to have a good reason to give each of you two a chance to find something which works, including possibily a partner who can be in presence of other women without pre-labeling it as a huge temptation which he has to totally avoid, ”unless you are okay with it”.