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    Humanist Hope posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago

    Life is indeed hard, but there is strength to be found in all of us. Share that strength with one another, and show each next person that they are not alone.

    • You are absolutely right @blackholehead, we all have strength and determination inside of ourselves that we can use to inspire others, keep being the amazing and compassionate human-being that you are, I’m always here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update its like people don’t want to be smart or kind, they’re only about how good or hot they look and that’s sad if that’s all you want, if that’s all you want to be (yourself)- or all you want […] View

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    That particular brand of belief persists primarily in the very young. Most people learn as they grow older that looks are not everything, and their beliefs tend to change accordingly. This is not always the case, but it is the typical outcome.

    If you find yourself around people who judge and persecute based on appearance, know…[Read more]

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    Humanist Hope replied to the forum topic Are Gifts Really That Important? in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 2 years, 11 months ago

    (@equestrian27) When it comes to love and relationships, there are essentially five “love languages” that people speak. That is, five typical ways that someone expresses affection and prefers to receive […]

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    Humanist Hope posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago

    Finally back and spending some time in the V/L chat.

    Remember that your life matters, and you are not alone.

    • Keep being the wonderful and compassionate human-being that you are @blackholehead, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hello! It’s glad to see that you are back. I hope you learn to enjoy it once again :)

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    Humanist Hope posted an update 3 years, 7 months ago

    Make your 28,000 days count. Be the hero you need in your life. We have but one life to live and there will come a time when we must fight for our happiness and trust ourselves to make the right decision.

    Contact Humanist Hope through Facebook, Twitter, or here at blahtherapy. If you need a compassionate ear, there is hope.

    • Keep being the compassionate and amazing person that you are @blackholehead, this world needs more angels like you, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update So I’m 15 and my friend wants to see the Conjuring 2 with me and its rated R. My mom was fine with me going cause my friends mom was going to be with us but then my dad said it has to be […] View

    @teamtennantgirl

    All it takes is an adult. Call the theater; they’ll confirm.

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update in the group Sexuality, Gender, and Mental Health Is it ever okay for your mom to call you a ”slut”? I’m 20 and live with her…I also have a 1 year old and in nursing school. I started […] View

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    Hello, miss Franci.

    That practice is called “slut-shaming” and your mother has no business treating you in such a way. You have “bodily autonomy”, that is you have the first and ultimate say about what you do, or do not do with your body.

    It is not wrong or “dirty” for women to enjoy sex, and this sexist belief that it…[Read more]

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Katherine posted an update Uh this guy that is 8 years older than me wants to meet me in real life..I meet him over online and idk what to do. He is 23 and Im 15.. View

    @teamtennantgirl

    This raises a LOT of red flags. You are a highly vulnerable target for sexual predators. Do not do this, do not even consider it for another moment.

    Keep yourself safe. Rape is a very real thing.

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Trevor posted an update ”You just need to do something, even if that means killing yourself. If your not going to do anything productive, then just kill yourself and get it over with.” – Family Member (a month […] View

    Don’t you worry yourself about the opinions of people who do not value your life. You exist, and therefore you matter. Your life matters.

    Do not permit your mind to fall into the trap of trying to derive a meaningful life chasing the acceptance of abusive people who do not deserve you. You deserve happiness for your own sake, just as much as…[Read more]

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: rd98 posted an update I don’t know anymore. It’s all changing too fast. I want something else every day. I want you now with all my heart. Then I don’t. I want to stay. I want to leave. What’s wrong? Is it […] View

    When we find ourselves conflicted like that, it is healthy for us to take a step back from the situation in order to give ourselves room to think rationally.

    Look up a list of relationship and abuse red flags in relationships, compare those to your own experiences. Think beyond the butterflies and hearts. Falling in love is natural, but it…[Read more]

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Lauren posted an update My boyfriend just broke up with me this weekend and I can’t help but ask myself what I did wrong? What had I done to make him pull away? View

    @laurenfritter

    What gives you the impression that it is your fault?

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: laylab95 posted an update Never in my entire life have I been this alone. (No friends and real family members.) Until this already horrible year. View

    Contact Humanist Hope anytime: There is hope, and you are not alone.

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    Humanist Hope posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Humanist Hope posted an update As humans; as thinking, reasoning beings, the onus is upon ourselves to give our lives meaning according to what we find that fulfills us, and to let go of the people and the belief […] View

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    Thank you for trusting BlahTherapy.

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    Humanist Hope posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    Make your 28,000 days count. Be the hero you need in your life.

    Contact Humanist Hope through Skype, Facebook, Twitter, or here at blahtherapy. If you need a compassionate ear, there is hope.

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    Humanist Hope posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    As humans; as thinking, reasoning beings, the onus is upon ourselves to give our lives meaning according to what we find that fulfills us, and to let go of the people and the belief systems that try to stifle and stymie our progress and growth.

    The only rational thing to do is to choose to believe in ourselves and to not fall into the trap of…[Read more]

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted a new activity comment 3 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: AddictedToFalling posted an update in the group Sexuality Questions Hi. Im El. I’m pan and i dont think my mom will accept it. View

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    You do not require someone else’s permission to exist or to be happy. Do not bother yourself with trying to believe in the people and in the things that do not in turn believe in you. You cannot force people to accept you, but you can search for people who will. Do not rely on or beg for the approval of people who are not…[Read more]

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: beachyclean posted an update I have made a mistake I have made an awful mistake and idk why I did but I did and I told my teacher about wanting to cut and harm and all that and now I’m so scared they’re going to […] View

    Even though it provides you with some measure of comfort, do not protect or defend your self-harm habits. Do not be afraid that you will no longer be able to harm yourself, it is a malformed coping mechanism that is not healthy for you, self-harm is not your friend.

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted a new activity comment 3 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: beachyclean posted an update holy hell I need to stop holding grudges over stupid shit View

    @beachyclean

    Holding grudges is exhausting and accomplishes nothing except prolonging our terrible feelings. It is best to let them go.

    Wizard’s Seventh Rule: ”Life is the future, not the past.”

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    Jonathan Sophrosyne posted a new activity comment 4 years ago

    In reply to: Blueberry posted an update christmas is a lie View

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    While the modern interpretation of Christmas is not the truth, seeing as the biblical Jesus-fugure neither existed in reality, nor was he born on Dec. 25th and the Winter Solstice celebrations were incorporated into Christianity in order to ease the conversion of the various pagans, that does not mean that the winter celebrations…[Read more]

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