@invincible

That particular brand of belief persists primarily in the very young. Most people learn as they grow older that looks are not everything, and their beliefs tend to change accordingly. This is not always the case, but it is the typical outcome.

If you find yourself around people who judge and persecute based on appearance, know…[Read more]

@teamtennantgirl

All it takes is an adult. Call the theater; they’ll confirm.

@fancifranci

Hello, miss Franci.

That practice is called “slut-shaming” and your mother has no business treating you in such a way. You have “bodily autonomy”, that is you have the first and ultimate say about what you do, or do not do with your body.

It is not wrong or “dirty” for women to enjoy sex, and this sexist belief that it…[Read more]

@teamtennantgirl

This raises a LOT of red flags. You are a highly vulnerable target for sexual predators. Do not do this, do not even consider it for another moment.

Keep yourself safe. Rape is a very real thing.

Don’t you worry yourself about the opinions of people who do not value your life. You exist, and therefore you matter. Your life matters.

Do not permit your mind to fall into the trap of trying to derive a meaningful life chasing the acceptance of abusive people who do not deserve you. You deserve happiness for your own sake, just as much as…[Read more]

When we find ourselves conflicted like that, it is healthy for us to take a step back from the situation in order to give ourselves room to think rationally.

Look up a list of relationship and abuse red flags in relationships, compare those to your own experiences. Think beyond the butterflies and hearts. Falling in love is natural, but it…[Read more]

@laurenfritter

What gives you the impression that it is your fault?

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@layla95

Thank you for trusting BlahTherapy.

@addictedtofalling

You do not require someone else’s permission to exist or to be happy. Do not bother yourself with trying to believe in the people and in the things that do not in turn believe in you. You cannot force people to accept you, but you can search for people who will. Do not rely on or beg for the approval of people who are not…[Read more]

Even though it provides you with some measure of comfort, do not protect or defend your self-harm habits. Do not be afraid that you will no longer be able to harm yourself, it is a malformed coping mechanism that is not healthy for you, self-harm is not your friend.

@beachyclean

Holding grudges is exhausting and accomplishes nothing except prolonging our terrible feelings. It is best to let them go.

Wizard’s Seventh Rule: ”Life is the future, not the past.”

@buenowaffle

While the modern interpretation of Christmas is not the truth, seeing as the biblical Jesus-fugure neither existed in reality, nor was he born on Dec. 25th and the Winter Solstice celebrations were incorporated into Christianity in order to ease the conversion of the various pagans, that does not mean that the winter celebrations…[Read more]