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    bigheart867 posted an update 4 years, 4 months ago

    So I’m pregnant and the father doesn’t want to be with me. He seemed like he was excited when we found out – he was with me everyday and made sure I was cared for and loved – then all of a sudden it all stopped – he didn’t come around anymore, called me everyday. Then the calling everyday stopped. And now he sporadically pops into my text messages asking how I’m doing. I don’t want this. I want him to be there for me or not be there for me at all. I feel like him popping in and asked how I’m doing adds more to me being depressed. I feel obligated to answer his messages bc it is his baby but at the same time, I don’t want to. I have decided to ignore his messages. He wants to be around for the doctor appts but I do t even want him around for that – I don’t want him to be half assed into this. Am I wrong for this?

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    • No you are not wrong for this

    • The father of your child really should be there for you @bigheart867, he should show you how much he cares and loves you and your beautiful baby, you deserve so much better, he has absolutely no right to abandon you during this time in your life, I would try to talk to him and let him know how you feel, it’s totally his choice to listen and make positive changes, hope things work out between both of you, please don’t feel bad, you are not at fault, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)