Actually, age gap is a big deal when you are young. I know people (especially people your same age) will tell you that it is ok. And the confusing part is, that it is ok when you are an adult.

But you are not […]

I feel a similar issue. I think it’s less just boredom and more “existential boredom”, lol.

For me, it happens when my meaningful activities start to wane and my meaningless activities begin to take over. […]

I had/have a similar problem. I have gathered a few tips over the years.

1. Make friends with other shy/anxious people. You can practice on them and they on you, and there is a lot less pressure then.

2. […]

I think it’s interesting that you only put the “sexually attracted” part by the “guys” part. Maybe you should ask yourself what you consider romantic feelings and what you consider sexual feelings.

You […]