• Profile picture of Gillian
    Passing Stranger
    QA Reputation

    Gillian posted an update 7 years, 5 months ago

    so this one group that i call family said i had to stay away from this other friend of mine because they don’t like her, The other friend of mine is trying to keep me away from them because they are making me upset, and she is also going to put a harassment charge on them. The family group keeps mentioning this girls name all the time and i get tired of hearing it they said I have to choose either her or them by next friday.The girl in the families group boyfriend takes her to school and stuff and hes there when im there he told me he is tired of hearing her name and that he is getting pissed off about it.He said i really need to think about my next move and that he is gonna start removing people from the list he has . He said he wasn’t f kidding,he said i have till friday and he is gonna start putting his foot down and its gonna get ugly fast,and i have to tell him an answer at 5pm on friday and if members of his group get information that i was with this girl he said i swear to go that my lid will flip and i really start yelling.He also said o i make myself clear, what should i do cause all of them except the boyfriend is in my school should i call the police is it a threat what should i do.

    Mood : Worried
    • Don’t stay with or be around people who try to force you who and who not to hang out with. That is 100% your decision to make.
      Maybe their opinions would be valid if they weren’t threatening you, or if they were just looking out for you, but if it’s just because they don’t like this girl, it’s wrong.
      I’d suggest not being or talking with them alone, as that could be dangerous for you, by the sound of their words.
      If they are harassing you or your friend, and/or threatening violence towards either one of you, definitely take legal action against them.

    • Don’t let people dictate who you can be friends with @allisongillianm, you should be able to be friends with whoever you want without having to be made to feel scared or upset, I would try to talk to someone you can trust about this situation and see if you can find ways to resolve it, hope things work out Gillian, I want the best for you, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • are you saying this is not threatening

    • thanks