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    Katherine posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    Hope everyone is doing alright <3

    • I’m surviving @teamtennantgirl, hope you are doing OK and everything is going well in your life Katherine, remember to stay wonderful and always be the amazing, fantastic and lovely person that you are, keep smiling and remember you are incredible, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of Excellent ListenerExcellent Listener are now friends 4 months, 1 week ago

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    Excellent Listener posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    It’s been four-ish years since ’ve logged in, looking to help and possibly make connections

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    Oli posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli, I can tell you, without a trace of doubt, that you are not any of that things. You are generous, kind hearted, selfless, wise, positive, honest, respectful, righteous, empathetic… You have so many virtues. It’s difficult to see them when the mind makes all the efforts to let you see just the bad side. But me, and everyone in BT, are here…[Read more]

    • @Oliver – Your life holds no meaning? Oh, Oli! I don’t know much about what’s going on outside of here in your personal life, but I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we see none of these faults in you.

      Your life has so much meaning to it. You have dedicated at LEAST a decade of your life logging on here and offering your kind,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 10 months ago

    It’s all so hopeless. :(

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    Oli posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    I just want to give up. :(

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    Oli posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    I’m so sad, things never work out for me, they always end up going badly no matter how hard I try. :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry Oli, please don’t let a few bumps in the road discourage you from living up to your full potential. Unfortunately life sucks a lot – but you have endless support from us here – we all genuinely care about you and know that you will succeed in life and things will look up for you. Have the faith we all have in you – but it’s OK to…[Read more]

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    Gleb posted an update 11 months ago

    Why does the chat disconnect so often? Ugh

    • Hope the chat has managed to re-connect for you @gleb, please know I’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything Gleb, I want the best for you Gleb so feel free to open up to me about anything that is on your mind, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thanks, @Oli :)

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    Gleb posted an update 11 months, 2 weeks ago

    I am afraid to go to work tomorrow. I started a course on Thursday this week. And as long as I remember, at every new place I’ve had terrible panic attacks. I use calming techniques and even bring some herb based calming pills with me but they all stop working at some point. And it’s overwhelming .

    • I would try to find other ways to relax, calm and put your mind at ease @gleb, take deep breathes, listen to calm sounds or music, meditate and use mindfulness, try to stay focused on all the positives of being on the course and starting a new job Gleb, remember to always believe in yourself and know you will achieve all your goals, dreams and…[Read more]

    • Thanks a lot, @Oli. :) It means a lot. In the end I got the sack, so it’s back to the old job hunt, I guess. For now my private lessons should suffice, at least for the time being. How are you doing, @Oli?

    • I do hope your job search and lessons go well @gleb, remember to stay positive and keep smiling Gleb, I’m sure you will find the correct job and career path for yourself, I’m surviving Gleb, just taking one day at a time, keep being awesome and wonderful Gleb because you deserve all the happiness that life has to offer, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

    • -hugs- thanks, @Oli. :) I suppose one day at a time is the best way to go.

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, it’s hopeless for me :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli you are a fantastic friend, who is caring, generous, helpful, warm hearted and sincere. It’s very difficult to deal with these feelings, even more during this cold season. Remember that I’m here for you if you need it my friend. You’ve done, and are still doing, so much for every member of the BT community, and you can count on us too to help…[Read more]

    • I second this!

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 2 months ago

    I feel so lonely and alone :(

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    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

    • Oli, you’re an amazing person. You have many friends and contacts here in BT. I don’t know about your personal life beyond the screen, but try to spend some time with your family and friends in your place of living.
      And please be gentle with yourself. It’s winter and with winter many people are prone towards sadness and depression. What works…[Read more]

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    Gleb posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I’m invited to an interview in another city for the role of chief operations manager (COM). The company deals with organizing excursions and trips to children on the spectrum and their parents on the weekends.
    Now the thing is that these kids visit some kind of centre that works on weekends only and once in a while I’ll be asked to visit those…[Read more]

    • I would talk to the company boss or whoever will be interviewing you @gleb, let them know that you don’t feel comfortable with certain aspects of the job and see if they can accommodate or make changes to the role, I’m sure no matter what happens, you will find a job that suits you, that benefits you and brings you a sense of purpose and…[Read more]

    • Thanks so much, Oli. :) In the end they stopped replying at all. Their loss overall.

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    Gleb posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    Hey guys, I’m back. It has been a long time since I logged in. Missed you all. Also graduated from uni with a B.A. in Hospitality and Tourism Management.

    • It’s so great to see you back on BT @gleb, hope you are OK Gleb and everything is going well in your life, I’m so proud of you Gleb, it’s wonderful to see that you graduated university, remember to stay positive, go forward with confidence, optimism and know you will make all your dreams, goals and aspirations come true Gleb, please know I’ll…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much, Oli. I’m glad to hear from you! Also why aren’t there any ”like” or ”thumbs up” buttons here?

    • Don’t really know why there are no like or thumbs up buttons @gleb, I guess the moderators took them out but hopefully they will be back, hope you are OK Gleb, remember to keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Welcome back Gleb! Congratulations on your uni degree :D . I hope you are having a nice day so far. Take care and stay strong @gleb. If you need to talk, my inbox is open :)

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 4 months ago

    I’m a failure and a loser :(

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    I’m so lonely, friendless, alone, sad and depressed, it’s hopeless and so truly terrifying, what’s going to happen to me or become of me?, I’m just pathetic, a loser, a recluse and hermit, life is just so meaningless and pointless :(

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    I’m so lonely, depressed, alone and friendless :( , it’s hopeless for me and always will be. :(

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 7 months ago

    I’m so alone, depressed, sad and lonely, I always will be that way no matter what I do or how hard I try, It’s so hopeless because I will NEVER be able to find true happiness in life :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • You of all people deserve happiness. Look at all the time you spend lifting others up! Be kind to yourself and remember you deserve love

    • Just as blackdog said to you, you deserve true happiness Oli. You uplift everyone’s mood when they need it, and believe in everybody’s strength. Believe in yourself too <3. You are full of virtues, and you deserve to appreciate them, as well as we do :) .

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    Oli replied to the forum topic A ship without captain in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 1 year, 9 months ago

    I second both of you on this @blackdog and @m1s1m3, this site has been abandoned for so long, it’s so sad compared to what BT used to be a few years ago, I would put myself forward to be moderator if that is what […]

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