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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    @aireens I was reading this the other day, if you take away the ”it’s too much for me” element, there are still some good tips and links to other posts and resources you can use: https://captainawkward.com/2018/06/20/1116-helping-someone-who-doesnt-seem-to-want-help-group-chat-edition/

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    That’s OK @aireens, I’ll always be here for you Aireens, I would keep being the compassionate, kind and sweet friend that you are towards her Aireens, let her know you care about her and want to see her happy, if she needs a shoulder to cry on, you can be that shoulder for her, hope everything works out for both you and your friend Aireens,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    I don’t want to see you feeling sad, depressed or down @aireens, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing angel who deserves to have a bright and lovely smile on her face, everything will be OK sweetie, you have so much courage and bravery inside and out, hold your head up high and keep fighting Aireens, you will win all your battles, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update So my country is obsessed with whitening and im not usually concerned about how i look but recently im feeling very i secure about how i look and sometimes i cant keep my head help up when […] View

    Do be proud of who you are @aireens, embrace every part of yourself inside and out as you are truly beautiful and perfect, don’t change yourself just because society says you should or someone has a negative opinion Aireens, remember to look in the mirror and smile at the wonderful angel you see staring back at you, you can do it sweetie, believe…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i was raised in a family where we were taught obedience is the best way to show respect and love to your parents. im a silent type of person when i stepped into college i experienced […] View

    Do express yourself openly and honestly @aireens, I know how you feel Aireens, I’m a shy, awkward, quiet introvert too, try your best to break out of your shell and mix with as many people as you can, spread your personality around and find things you enjoy and love sweetie, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by fun, laughter and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update anyone else experience the feeling of regret when they share a very personal thing to someone? what do you call this if theres a specific term for this feeling? View

    Only share personal things if you feel comfortable and if you truly trust that person @aireens, I want to see you surrounded by people who will stick by you and remain loyal to you Aireens, everything will be OK hun, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Aireens, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead View

    Do be proud of yourself for graduating @aireens, but remember to always do what makes you truly happy Aireens, follow your dreams and make all your goals come true Aireens, stay positive and know you will be successful, keep going forward and never give up sweetie, you can do it Aireens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i realize to have a deeper bond with someone you actually gotta care abou them… and i realize i dont care about others but myself…………how the hell do i change this. View

    You are such a caring, compassionate and lovely person who makes others smile and feel wonderful @aireens, be kind to yourself Aireens and always spread brightness, happiness and joy as much as you can, you will meet someone who you will have a deep bond and strong relationship with, everyone deserves good people around them, you do too Aireens,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update hi anyone up to just listen to me vent? i would go to the vent chat but im not free for long period of time i dont think my problem is super huge?? but for once i just want to be fully […] View

    What’s on your mind @aireens, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Aireens, you can talk to me or any member of the BT community, you are such a lovely person and I want to see you happy :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Anyone here i can talk to about school/career choice related things? View

    @aireens every single uni students feels the same way. The thing is can you see yourself using that degree in the future?
    In my case I changed to another degree (and waisted 3 years..) but I was dumb in a way, I could have finished and take the one I am taking now, like you are saying. So my suggestion is finish the degree you have now and if…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Anyone here i can talk to about school/career choice related things? View

    @aireens I’m in university so school wise I can help

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 months, 4 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Anyone here i can talk to about school/career choice related things? View

    Try to find organisations in your area that can give you advice on the sort of career you want, also look online to see if you find any jobs you may like or be interested in @aireens, I’m sure you will find something wonderful that you will enjoy Aireens, know your future will be so bright and filled with many fantastic opportunities, I’m sure…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update hello everyone i just would like to share my progress so i had friends that have made me uncomfortable, made me feel like i wasnt enough, also made me feel like i was just an annoyance to […] View

    It’s great to see you happy, positive and upbeat @aireens, do spend time with compassionate people who will stick by you no matter what Aireens, everyone deserves loving friends around them, you do too, spread your wings and embrace your wonderful personality Aireens, keep smiling and always go forward with confidence, continue to inspire the BT…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 10 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Hello everyone! how are you all doing? at the moment i have a lot of conflicting feelings but i really wanna send some positive energy to everyone here! View

    @aireens I’m okay , but I hope you’re feel better though. If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to PM me :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update Hello everyone! how are you all doing? at the moment i have a lot of conflicting feelings but i really wanna send some positive energy to everyone here! View

    I’m surviving @aireens, hope you are doing great Aireens, what’s on your mind, I don’t want to see you feeling conflicted, down or upset, you are such a fantastic, special and amazing person who deserves all the happiness in the world, always be the kind angel that you are, it’s nice to see you spreading compassion and hope here on BT, inbox…[Read more]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 year, 1 month ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i want therapy but i cant afford it View

    @aireens If you are from the USA or Canada, you can check the article I have linked in my Bio.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 1 month ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i want therapy but i cant afford it View

    Please don’t feel down or upset @aireens, I’m sure you will find the right help and support like a counsellor or therapist Aireens, don’t be afraid to reach out, remember the BT community is always here for you too and so am I, you are such an incredible person who deserves happiness, love and hope in her life, try to stay positive and believe…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 6 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update its been so long :D how have you guys been? View

    I’m surviving @aireens, hope you are doing fantastically Aireens, I’m always here for you, keep being the wonderful person that you are :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update no wonder i have no close friends …i keep lying to myself and others View

    Please don’t feel alone @aireens, I may not know you personally but I care about you, I’m sure you will meet amazing people who will stick by you and love you no matter what, remember to spread your bright personality and go out into the world Aireens, you are a special person who deserves all the best, believe in yourself and never give up,…[Read more]

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update anyone here studying psychology? where d you guys usually find credible online sources for research and homework in general? ;u;for people who are going to school atm and feeling […] View

    @aireens I agree with aprxl, definetly go for books. If you have a good library around you take a morning or afternoon and choose a couple of books, You can even take them home maybe and take some photocopies and then underline important stuff with markers. That’s how I passed my very hard History exam in 12th grade and also my literature exam in…[Read more]

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