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    aireens posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    thank you oli for the concern! but im thankful to say that im feeling alright, its my friend who i am worried about :( shes feeling out of it and i dont know how to help her

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update please help…. how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired View

    it is via chat… im saying this because irl interaction and chat interaction is very different for me :(

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    aireens posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    please help….
    how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired

    • it is via chat… im saying this because irl interaction and chat interaction is very different for me :(

    • I don’t want to see you feeling sad, depressed or down @aireens, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing angel who deserves to have a bright and lovely smile on her face, everything will be OK sweetie, you have so much courage and bravery inside and out, hold your head up high and keep fighting Aireens, you will win all your battles, you…[Read more]

    • thank you oli for the concern! but im thankful to say that im feeling alright, its my friend who i am worried about :( shes feeling out of it and i dont know how to help her

    • That’s OK @aireens, I’ll always be here for you Aireens, I would keep being the compassionate, kind and sweet friend that you are towards her Aireens, let her know you care about her and want to see her happy, if she needs a shoulder to cry on, you can be that shoulder for her, hope everything works out for both you and your friend Aireens,…[Read more]

    • @aireens I was reading this the other day, if you take away the ”it’s too much for me” element, there are still some good tips and links to other posts and resources you can use: https://captainawkward.com/2018/06/20/1116-helping-someone-who-doesnt-seem-to-want-help-group-chat-edition/

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Today was an incredible birthday. I love my family and friends so much. ♥ View

    Belated happy birthday cecelia!! Glad you had a good one!!

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: lovers00 posted an update soo ive been thinking for a while about losing my virginity and i think im actually gonna do it i feel ready im just a lil scared it will hurt or ill get pregnant if you have any tips […] View

    Just make sure you feel safe around the person youre doing it with and make sure to have a condom ( Also dont believe whatever excuse they make ONLY have sex with a condom, there is a big chance you will get pregnant if you dont use condoms even if they pull out)

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    aireens posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    So my country is obsessed with whitening and im not usually concerned about how i look but recently im feeling very i secure about how i look and sometimes i cant keep my head help up when im walking in public because in so insecure about my face
    I was thinking of doing whitening
    Idk i its my first time bwing this mucn insecure of my appearance…[Read more]

    • Do be proud of who you are @aireens, embrace every part of yourself inside and out as you are truly beautiful and perfect, don’t change yourself just because society says you should or someone has a negative opinion Aireens, remember to look in the mirror and smile at the wonderful angel you see staring back at you, you can do it sweetie, believe…[Read more]

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    aireens posted an update 3 months ago

    i was raised in a family where we were taught obedience is the best way to show respect and love to your parents. im a silent type of person when i stepped into college i experienced having friends where i was gradually being “trained’ to just keep quiet and now that im out of that circle im having a hard time finding my voice…
    it is so hard…[Read more]

    Mood : Discontent
    • Oli replied 3 months ago

      Do express yourself openly and honestly @aireens, I know how you feel Aireens, I’m a shy, awkward, quiet introvert too, try your best to break out of your shell and mix with as many people as you can, spread your personality around and find things you enjoy and love sweetie, I want to see you truly happy and surrounded by fun, laughter and…[Read more]

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I can’t do this anymore…why bother?, it’s better to give up on life because things will forever be dark, bleak, depressing, sad and hopeless, seriously if death came for me, I would be […] View

    oli nooo dont ever think of that you are a great person! pm me! lets talk :(

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i mean dang we don’t have to be twins but I’d like it if you liked at least some of the things I do and see the beauty in the things that i Do. View

    i know right, i mean are the things were interested really that rare that its so hard to find people that could relate or appreciate it

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update anyone else experience the feeling of regret when they share a very personal thing to someone? what do you call this if theres a specific term for this feeling? View

    aww thank you oli! i think because ive heard that in order to connect with others one must not be afraid to share and be vulnerable to them… the problem is the people im talking doesnt seem to have that mindset

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update You drain my energy but it’s like I’ll gladly give my energy to you View

    a love and hate that feelings lmao

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    aireens posted an update 3 months, 1 week ago

    anyone else experience the feeling of regret when they share a very personal thing to someone? what do you call this if theres a specific term for this feeling?

    • Only share personal things if you feel comfortable and if you truly trust that person @aireens, I want to see you surrounded by people who will stick by you and remain loyal to you Aireens, everything will be OK hun, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent Aireens, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • aww thank you oli! i think because ive heard that in order to connect with others one must not be afraid to share and be vulnerable to them… the problem is the people im talking doesnt seem to have that mindset

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Postive Vibes posted an update Hey guys i had a question and just wanted your views on it if a girl goes to visit her boyfriend in a hotel room as he is staying over in her city is that bad? At this point she is […] View

    i dont think its bad. although i hope her boyfriend or the place is not dangerous tho.

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 4 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tXLJ8CJWBsbecause I’m turning 23 today x) View

    Happy bday!!! hope youre having a good one!!

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead View

    thank you cecelia! a very positive point of view i need to take! :D

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 4 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead View

    thank you oli! i will!! hopefully my brain can still keep up hahaha! :D

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    aireens posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    im gonna graduate with my Psychology degree but ironically i just realized i want to take up VetMed instead….should have started with vetmed instead

    • Do be proud of yourself for graduating @aireens, but remember to always do what makes you truly happy Aireens, follow your dreams and make all your goals come true Aireens, stay positive and know you will be successful, keep going forward and never give up sweetie, you can do it Aireens, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong,…[Read more]

    • It’s never too late to change career paths TBH and those are both great things – so you should be proud and supportive of yourself :)

    • thank you oli! i will!! hopefully my brain can still keep up hahaha! :D

    • thank you cecelia! a very positive point of view i need to take! :D

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 5 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: jetstream posted an update concept: imagine if i’d been taught how to properly/healthily deal with emotions as a kid View

    do you any suggestions or idea on how to teach kids on how to deal with their emotions?

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    aireens posted a new activity comment 5 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: aireens posted an update i realize to have a deeper bond with someone you actually gotta care abou them… and i realize i dont care about others but myself…………how the hell do i change this. View

    @oliver thank you!! i will try to be positive :)
    @universalwoman ive been asking myself that, im still in the process of it tho but im thankful that you have given me this other way to cope with this feeling thank you!
    @invincible cecelia thank you those words “dont punish yourself” really lifted my spirits up! i will try and use this as a way…[Read more]

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    aireens posted an update 6 months ago

    i realize to have a deeper bond with someone you actually gotta care abou them… and i realize i dont care about others but myself…………how the hell do i change this.

    • Oli replied 6 months ago

      You are such a caring, compassionate and lovely person who makes others smile and feel wonderful @aireens, be kind to yourself Aireens and always spread brightness, happiness and joy as much as you can, you will meet someone who you will have a deep bond and strong relationship with, everyone deserves good people around them, you do too Aireens,…[Read more]

    • Hey Aireens, have you ever asked yourself why you feel like you only care about yourself and not anyone else? Once you find that answer you can change. When they say the truth will set you free it applies to a lot of things and in this case, if you find what the answer is you can better handle what it is you want to change or in other words…[Read more]

    • it takes time, take it slowly and don’t punish yourself if you don’t change automatically .:)

    • @oliver thank you!! i will try to be positive :)
      @universalwoman ive been asking myself that, im still in the process of it tho but im thankful that you have given me this other way to cope with this feeling thank you!
      @invincible cecelia thank you those words “dont punish yourself” really lifted my spirits up! i will try and use this as a way…[Read more]

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