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    AddictedToFalling posted an update in the group Group logoSexuality Questions 5 years, 6 months ago

    Hi. Im El. I’m pan and i dont think my mom will accept it.

    Mood : Worried
    • You deserve love and care no matter what your sexuality is @addictedtofalling, remember to surround yourself with people who will not judge and who will always be there for you, try to stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • You’ll run into a lot of people that won’t accept who you really are initially, stranger. But I can assure you, the ones who matter and will stand by you won’t even see it as a factor. It won’t matter in the slightest what your preferences are to them, because they’re yours. No one else’s. Stay true to yourself, and I guarantee you’ll have no regrets.

      In time, I hope your mother will be able to accept who you naturally are, but understand that you’ll face a lot of hardship when your situation is outside of the societal norm. But if they reject you based on something so shallow, it says absolutely nothing negative about you, and far more than enough than you’ll ever need to know about them.

    • @addictedtofalling

      You do not require someone else’s permission to exist or to be happy. Do not bother yourself with trying to believe in the people and in the things that do not in turn believe in you. You cannot force people to accept you, but you can search for people who will. Do not rely on or beg for the approval of people who are not interested in understanding you.

      You deserve happiness. Your life matters. You matter.