I don’t know if I understood correctly, but I’ll try to give my approach to this. If a member of the polyamorous group refused to add Eli to it, I understand that as that them do not want Eli inside the romantic/sexual relationship between them. So, that would mean Eli can still be friends with this girl (since friendship does not intrude into the polyamorous relationship). If he is afraid his feelings for her might be problematic for this situation, it would be wise to wait and think about it for some time. I agree it’s a complicated situation, and very difficult to find a suitable solution. I hope you can find the best answer for you soon, Sofia <3
I don’t know if I understood correctly, but I’ll try to give my approach to this. If a member of the polyamorous group refused to add Eli to it, I understand that as that them do not want Eli inside the romantic/sexual relationship between them. So, that would mean Eli can still be friends with this girl (since friendship does not intrude into the polyamorous relationship). If he is afraid his feelings for her might be problematic for this situation, it would be wise to wait and think about it for some time. I agree it’s a complicated situation, and very difficult to find a suitable solution. I hope you can find the best answer for you soon, Sofia <3