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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    My ex. Almost forgotten.

    Then a close friend (who also happens to be his ex) told me that one of her friends was playing truth or dare with a group of popular kids. Long story short, the three of us hatched a plan to to listen in, and ended up on the phone with it muted on our end (so that we could hear them, but they couldn’t hear us).

    I don’t even remember what the question was. Something along the lines of ”are you still a virgin.” The answering voice chilled me to the bone, as did the answer. I’d know that voice anywhere: it was my ex. Almost a second later, the girl who was at the event texted us, ”OMG CAN YOU BELIEVE TJ LOST HIS V CARD?!?!”

    There are two possible explanations. The first is that he lost it before we dated, and lied to me. This seems extremely implausible; I know him, and he wouldn’t lie to me about that. The second is that he lost it sometime in the two months since he broke up with me. So either he broke up with me so that he could go fuck someone, or he forgot about me so soon that he became immersed with someone else so quickly that… well, you know.

    Here are the facts:
    1. My ex lost his virginity
    2. It was probably in the last 2 months
    3. He’s not currently seeing someone, so he fucked someone he wasn’t even dating

    On Friday, my friends and I were sitting in the halls during lunch period, talking. Suddenly, they both fell silent, looking at something behind me. I turned, and he was there, flanked by 2 girls, and I couldn’t help but wonder, ”which one of them was it?” Next thing I knew, I was around the corner with tears in my eyes, hardly able to speak. But I managed to do what I always do, which is pull the mask back on and pretend to be happy. Pretend my life isn’t falling apart. Pretend to be okay.

    But really, I’m not, and I don’t know if I ever will be.

    Mood : Crushed
    • Omg. I didn’t expect this at all. I’m so sorry for what has happened, and I wish I could’ve consoled you when I had the chance, but you we’re hiding the fact that you were crushed and sad. I’m so sorry again, Jesus is that depressing and so messed up.

    • Don’t let what your ex is doing bring you down @985921sqh, you are such a special and amazing person who deserves happiness in life Echo and to be loved, one day you will find your knight in shining armour, you will meet someone wonderful who will love you unconditionally and who will stick by you no matter what, focus on surrounding yourself with positivity and people who will bring you brightness Echo, make each day fantastic Echo and keep going forward, do things that bring a smile to your face and don’t let school or relationship drama break you, stay upbeat, you can do it Echo, always believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I’m so sorry Echo, this is all very intense and annoying I can’t imagine how upset you are, but please don’t let that asshole and his shady life get you down. Be strong and persist on with your life, it will fade away and we are all here for you, don’t hesitate to come to us to vent or get support. ♥ Here for you completely!

    • With those facts, whatever the truth is, it doesn’t sound like your ex was somebody you’d want to be around anyways. I’d say it’s not worth the time and effort to think about or find out who he’s spending time with. You’re very likely better off without him and it’s best to keep him in the past- not the present. Right?