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    Fading Echo posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    HOW DO WE KILL THE SPAM.

    ideas: we could create a forum or something for updates that only real members (not spammers) of BT could join. or we could like IDEK i want it gone!!!!!

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Indeed @985921sqh, we have to find a way to get rid of the annoying spam on BT, it honestly brings this community down, I want BT to always be a place of love, kindness and compassion, thank you for always keeping this community safe and coming up with useful ideas and suggestions to stop the spam, try to contact the moderators Echo, if they…[Read more]

    • The way we’re SUPPOSED to get rid of spam is to report all the spambot profiles as inappropriate, but since the moderators are likely to be totally inactive (and probably only, like, five people use this site frequently enough), we may have to take matters into our own hands. We could potentially create a BlahTherapy Group for actual updates or…[Read more]

    • Right, @the-ghost-of-nobody, that sounds GREAT, except not everyone has discord and also I have no idea how to create a group… What if we posted something in the ”questions” category where people could post their updates there instead?

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Desperate emotional sugar mom posted an update I’m feeling real silly bc ppl are using real names instead of something like my long ass nickname. This worrying is a perfect example of my social anxiety wtf View

    @sghrrui, don’t worry at all. People have some weird ass names on here and yours is totally fine. If it makes you feel better, I really like it. If you need anything, just inbox me.

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update This is just a comment regarding @FadingEcho and her recent update, and she said that if anyone wants to comment on that update, to do an update on their profile and comment there, so that’s […] View

    thanks so much @anxietyattack66! ill def update u when i have time!

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    Fading Echo posted an update 5 months, 2 weeks ago

    im back. three weeks in costa rica and im back.

    i found my boyfriend. he genuinely cares about me, and i love him.
    he wasnt the only thing i found. i found a sense of peace. i dont know how temporary it is, but for now im okay with being me.

    since i cant find a way to filter the spam, everybody comment with their updates, or feel free to…[Read more]

    Mood : Bewildered
    • Awww it’s great to see you happy and loved @985921sqh, hope your relationship with your boyfriend keeps going strong Echo and that you had a wonderful vacation in Costa Rica, you are such a fantastic person Echo who truly deserves to have someone special in your life, keep going forward sweetie and always be the incredible, awesome and beautiful…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo and Profile picture of koMel are now friends 6 months, 1 week ago

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    Fading Echo posted an update 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    the person who raped me in ninth grade just texted me and sent me into the worst anxiety attack ive ever had. i literally cannot breathe. first time in a year and half and he sends a wink emoji, what does that even mean

    Mood : Afraid
    • Do you need to chat? I’ve been there.

    • Do you need to chat? I’ve been there.

    • Don’t let him have any power over you @985921sqh, he has absolutely no right to contact you at all Echo, he should leave you alone sweetie, please report him and what he did to you Echo, don’t respond to him Echo, please stay safe Echo and take care of yourself, I don’t want to see anyone hurt you Echo, I wish I could do more to help you Echo,…[Read more]

    • if you give me his contacts I will go and kill him ( it is against the law so But I will beat him….)..And I will protect you..You have us… your friends…………. cheer up…. We are with you…..just ignore other things……Stay strong ……….we luv you………..

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update Since I last was on, here is the stuff that has impacted my life:1. My ex and I got back together last week 2. I gave him a hall pass (because I move really slow in relationships) […] View

    @oliver, tbh its over and i just want to be done with it so i dont plan to report it.

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    Fading Echo posted an update 6 months, 3 weeks ago

    Since I last was on, here is the stuff that has impacted my life:

    1. My ex and I got back together last week
    2. I gave him a hall pass (because I move really slow in relationships) on the condition that he tell me when he used it and then he didn’t do that. Then I find out hes been exchanging nudes with this girl and wants to hook up with…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • Don’t let him have any power over you @985921sqh, honestly he is a jerk Echo and you are such a beautiful angel who deserves so much better, I would cut him out of your life and move forward focusing on your happiness and wellbeing sweetie, what happened to you in the ninth grade was so wrong Echo, no one ever deserves to be raped or sexually…[Read more]

    • @oliver, tbh its over and i just want to be done with it so i dont plan to report it.

    • He doesnt respect you. Its best to cut all ties with him no matter how much it hurts

    • We’ve already discussed this earlier, so there’s not much to say. TJ is a cool guy, he just needs to learn how to live his life correctly. We’ll try our best to talk you out of dating him again, you don’t deserve the relationship he has given you, no one does in general honestly. I’m still very sorry for what happened to ya in the 9th grade,…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: rudy posted an update sad af View

    It’s going to be okay, @rudyy. Take a deep breath and remember that tomorrow will come.
    If you ever need anything (a friend, someone to talk to, advice), simply inbox me.

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    Fading Echo posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    It’s been so long, guys. So much has happened. Most of it is stress.

    1. My parents are thieves and stole my knife, which makes me mad af but I’m sure will make you happy.
    2. My dad installed another block in the internet to block BT from my computer, so I’m working on hacking that. (I’ve got a temporary 5 minute window that I’m using rn.)…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I can’t believe your ex is still being a dick towards you even though you forgave him, that’s not how it’s supposed to be done and approached. I can’t believe your ex thinks your faking your depression for attention, that’s fucking wrong and will always be wrong, you never faked anything in front of us,…[Read more]

    • Please don’t let your horrible ex have any power over you @985921sqh, he has absolutely no right being mean towards you, you deserve so much better Echo, please don’t listen to him, struggling with depression is NOT attention seeking, you are such a lovely person who wants the sadness to stop, do open up about your thoughts, feelings and emotions…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: $teve posted an update Heart Open Nice Extra Supportive TrustworthyH.O.N.E.S.T that’s what my everyday life is, trying to be honest.You’ll never walk alone View

    Thank you @anxietyattack66

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    Fading Echo posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    Just want to let you guys all know that I’m here for you if you need to chat or vent. Just inbox me. Maybe not right now (finals and studying for the end of the year is keeping me busy), but I’ll do the best I can. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

    Mood : Grateful
    • Awww you are so sweet, lovely, compassionate and kind to all of us here on BT @985921sqh, thank you for always being the beautiful, helpful and wonderful human-being that you are Echo, please know the BT community will always be here for you too and so will I, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay…[Read more]

    • Just remember:
      You’ll never walk alone

      Thank you for giving your support to us, we all can understand that we can’t get your support now due to finals and all that as it’s important to focus on hard work and studying. But once your done with all that, you can hop into this community and see who to help and give support to, which is really…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I was on the wrong medication for the last two weeks. My psychiatrist thought my anxiety was too high, and doubled the dosage. Not only did it increase my anxiety, it completely […] View

    @listeningemma, @oliver, and @anxietyattack66 – Thank you so much for the suggestions. I have a 504 already in place, but maybe it’s time to review my accommodations. Thank you for your kindness, too. Your words always brighten my day. And, lastly, thank you for your understanding. I really appreciate your advice.

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update I was on the wrong medication for the last two weeks. My psychiatrist thought my anxiety was too high, and doubled the dosage. Not only did it increase my anxiety, it completely […] View

    @listeningemma, @oliver, and @anxietyattack66 – Thank you so much for the suggestions. I have a 504 already in place, but maybe it’s time to review my accommodations. Thank you for your kindness, too. Your words always brighten my day. And, lastly, thank you for your understanding. I really appreciate your advice.

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    Fading Echo posted a new activity comment 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    In reply to: nobodyal posted an update i need someone……..who can understand me……………the bottom of this bottle will be slose soon… why do I feel like this ??????? View

    I am here for you @nobodyal if you need to chat or vent or anything. I’m here. You’re not alone. We’re all here for you. Never forget that.

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    Fading Echo posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    I was on the wrong medication for the last two weeks. My psychiatrist thought my anxiety was too high, and doubled the dosage. Not only did it increase my anxiety, it completely obliterated my motivational anxiety, causing me to go into full blown “I don’t give a shit” mode, I stopped doing my classwork, my homework, and pretty much everything I…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • Just a couple suggestions— if you don’t have a 504 plan in place already at your school, they are available to students with diagnoses (either physical or psychological) who need reasonable accommodations to successfully access their curriculum/education. This could include extra time for assignments, shortened assignments, pull-out setting…[Read more]

    • I would talk to your parents and doctors about your medication and other ways to help you so you feel positive, motivated and upbeat @985921sqh, you will be OK Echo, work on finding strategies to calm yourself and help you stay focused so you can achieve all your goals, everything will be OK sweetie, you will complete all your projects and be…[Read more]

    • That really sucks, It’s ok if you don’t want to do work at the moment, as long as you can take care of yourself and get the appropriate medications needed for your anxiety, you’ll be in safe hands. Take it easy lad, don’t build up this stress and pressure onto yourself because that’s not healthy, and it’ll slow you down even more which is…[Read more]

    • @listeningemma, @oliver, and @anxietyattack66 – Thank you so much for the suggestions. I have a 504 already in place, but maybe it’s time to review my accommodations. Thank you for your kindness, too. Your words always brighten my day. And, lastly, thank you for your understanding. I really appreciate your advice.

    • @listeningemma, @oliver, and @anxietyattack66 – Thank you so much for the suggestions. I have a 504 already in place, but maybe it’s time to review my accommodations. Thank you for your kindness, too. Your words always brighten my day. And, lastly, thank you for your understanding. I really appreciate your advice.

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    Fading Echo posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    something’s happening to me. i feel like im losing energy, slowly. i dont focus much anymore, my grades are slipping, its getting harder to speak to others. im withdrawing from my friends, my family, everyone. i want to kill myself, but i dont have the energy to act on it and i am not selfish enough to do it to my family and friends. but i want…[Read more]

    Mood : Exanimate
    • I don’t want to see you feeling upset, sad or lethargic @985921sqh, you deserve to feel upbeat, positive and able to take on the world with happiness and optimism sweetie, everything will be OK Echo, surround yourself with the things that bring you hope and make you smile brightly, please don’t kill yourself Echo, things will change for the…[Read more]

    • Don’t kill yourself. This may be my final way of trying to prevent you from doing this, so this’ll be a long one.

      Please don’t kill yourself, i’ve known you for at least a year or so and I can safely say that you’re one of the greatest friends i’ve ever met. You’ve helped me a lot and always had something to say whenever I was in a bad…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo posted an update 8 months ago

    Hey, guys.

    I’m under a lot of pressure right now.

    My friend called me yesterday morning, frantic and hysterical. She told me that her mother was abusive, and that she had called the police on her. She ran out of the house to her homework club and stayed there, where she called me. I offered to do whatever I could, but there wasn’t much. I…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • Oli replied 8 months ago

      That’s so horrible @985921sqh, your friend doesn’t deserve to be abused, no one does, you are doing the right thing Echo, always be the compassionate, sweet and caring friend that is always there to support and love her, do get her to open up to you and the police about her home situation, hopefully your friend will find a safe and loving place…[Read more]

    • You are trying hard enough, you just don’t know the options that could possibly help her. Do whatever you can do to make your friend safe. Texting and calling her is sufficient help for the moment just so that you have regular contact with her and make sure she’s ok. Some options may be risky, but it’s for the greater good to make sure she is in a…[Read more]

    • That definitely sounds like a bad situation for your friend to be in. It’s very nice of you to offer whatever you can to help her. As for the last paragraph, don’t think of depression as a test of worthiness or a competition. Everyday happiness is more like pain tolerance or the ability to eat Marmite. Some people just don’t have it, some…[Read more]

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    Fading Echo joined the group Group logo♀ Teens ♂ 8 months, 1 week ago

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    Fading Echo posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    I’m back. After a VERY long break. Sorry about that; I was grounded (for reasons I mentioned in one of my recent updates). Anyway… I’ve returned. I’m not ungrounded, but I finally managed to hack my dad’s firewall, so here I am. Hello. It’s been very lonely without you guys here for me.

    What’s been happening basically is that my parents…[Read more]

    Mood : Alone
    • Your parents really should listen, help and be there for you @985921sqh, I would talk to them about your medication, if you feel the medication truly benefits and helps you, let your parents know that you want to continue using it, you will make it through all the difficult times and so many brighter days lie ahead for you awesome Echo, please…[Read more]

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