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    Spion posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    Why is my friend so obsessively weird with this guy she knows? he was supposedly her friend but now goes several months without calling her, but when he does she drops everything and will totally direct her attention towards him… abandoning all other plans to spend hours talking to him!
    then they don’t talk forever … it’s really weird. she says he’s not even that fun to talk to and is rather a strange individual with ADHD. what is the deal?!

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      It’s nice that your friend is close with this guy but I would tell her to also focus on her other friends too @60squeen, while it’s great to have close friends, becoming obsessed with each other can have negative outcomes, I would talk to your friend about your concerns, let her know you want the best for her and you want to see her thrive and grow into someone who is surrounded by lots of good people, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @60squeen Sometimes girls have low self esteem and at any point will go back to the guy. She might saying random excuses, while deep down she likes him? Just an idea