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    Fading Echo posted an update 4 years ago

    Hey, guys.
    It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Hope everyone’s doing okay.
    I won’t waste time updating you on all the unnecessary shit. Point is, I have a boyfriend and I’m now (sort of) proudly asexual. And my boyfriend, while he loves and accepts me for who I am, isn’t ace. And he wants more, but he does such a great job of hiding his feelings that I sometimes don’t even notice. He says he’s happy with me, and he is, but I just… i think maybe he’d be happier with someone else.
    I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose him, but I’d break up with him in an instant if he wasn’t happy with me.

    Mood : Afraid
    • Oli replied 4 years ago

      It’s great to see you back on BT @985921sqh, hope you are doing well awesome Echo, don’t rush anything in your relationship Echo, I would talk openly and honestly with your boyfriend about how you each see things, I would make this relationship go at a pace that suits both of you so you can both feel comfortable, remember to both make this relationship as strong and loving as you can, everything will be OK Echo, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat Echo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey mate, it’s been a while since we’ve chatted. I haven’t posted on this website in almost 6 months, particularly because stuff happened that I wanted to share, but maybe it’s best if I kept it to myself for now, so I’m in the same boat as you in terms of that. I hope you’re doing well, and I wish you and your family safeness and healthiness during this time. It’s ok if you’re skeptical about your new relationship, considering past relations haven’t been the best for you, but hopefully, you can get some common ground in this one. I wish you all the best, and I hope we can talk sometime soon, because ngl, me and hector miss ya in the group chat, but we’ve coped with it. If you ever need help or support, let all of us know so that we can all try to help you the best we can. Nice seeing ya back for the while, you were surely missed by all of us.

      And also, You’ll Never Walk Alone