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    Steven Benner posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    The girl I’m in love with who’s one of my close friends is getting married to someone else I’ve had feelings for her since I was 14 years old and I’m 25 now everyone else has been happy for her and no one has cared to check to see how I’m doing cuz they know how I feel I’ve given up on life when it comes to this I don’t know whether to commit suicide or to pack a bag buy a plane ticket and run away and tell no one where I went and never come back can I get some advice or sympathy for my problems please. I get no bright side no Silver Linings no happy endings

    I hate her fiance i want kick his keebler elf looking hipster punkass he fucking sucks.

    The girl didn’t respect me enough to give me an actual reason why i wasn’t good enough for her and she chose a dude who i pray gives me a reason to punch him right in the fucking face cause he sucks that much. I wish cancer on that fuck so i can spit on his coffin

    I asked girls on here if he’s better looking than me and they all said yes he was and theyd rather date him than me. Can anybody give me advice thats beneficial for me? Not advice that only benefits her boyfriend, cause reality is if you say ”If you really love her youd be happy for her” or ”move on”, that has no benefits for me it only benefits her bitchboy punkass boyfriend.

    I’m 25 never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date no good looking attractive women like me. Everyone tells me to lower my standards to unattractive obese women and I’m tired of it. I’ll feel like even more of a loser if i end up with a woman who isn’t hotter than the girl who rejected me after all my rejections and failures with women

    Again to recap she doesn’t love me she loves him nobody feels bad for me because everybody else wants these two to be married already and the only type of girls who like me or unattractive obese girls so I don’t get a bright side or a silver lining or happy ending that benefits me all of those is a losing situation for me or I end up with either nothing or what doesn’t make up for what I lost out on. I told her I love her she rejected and then after rejecting me she tried setting me up with a fat ugly girl after thinking she did me a favor when all it really did was insult me.

    Here’s the ”advice” I get from close friends which shows how much they just don’t care about how I feel

    ”Move on if you love her be happy for her lower your standards take what you can get or take nothing the girls who like you may not be pretty but give them a chance they’re really nice girls”

    As it shows I get treated like shit can I get it advice that benefits me please

    Mood : Jealous
    • Please don’t give up on finding true love @sbenner7693, you will meet someone special one day Steven, a beautiful partner will come into your life Steven, I know how you feel, I’m 27 and have only ever had one girlfriend in my life, it was a short relationship that didn’t last long, I’m still a virgin too, I agree with @gorchanstruck, do work on yourself Steven, improve your confidence and self-esteem if you are shy, try talking to as many new people as you can and see what happens, if you want to improve your appearance, join a gym and do regular exercise, eat right and focus on fitness, remember to take care of yourself first though, make sure you are healthy mentally, physically and emotionally, please don’t kill yourself Steven, you will find romance and love in life, you will make a woman so happy one day, stay positive and never give up, you can do it Steve, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)