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    shiloh posted an update 7 years, 8 months ago

    how do i come out as someone i know people won’t accept? i know people will say i am not trans enough but what i feel is real. i deserve to be happy with myself right? so why can’t i just do this for me and stop caring what people think?
    how do i stop caring?

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    • you don’t need others to define whether or not what you feel is something that’s real or possible. the fact that you believe it with your heart makes it real and possible. you stop caring when you realize that what you believe is who you are and others can’t change or reject that. you have the power to be happy. be proud of who you are and no one will have the power to make you feel like you shouldn’t. that’s how you stop caring (:

    • @peiyopei ^ yup, you’re living for yourself and not for others

    • Be proud of who you are and surround yourself with people who will accept you no matter what @peiyopei, your happiness is the thing that counts in the end, smile and keep going, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)

    • thank you guys also thank you oli for all those comments. i dont usually check mentions but what you guys said actually kinda helped me.