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    Cecelia posted an update 7 years, 9 months ago

    apparently PLANNING a whole fucking trip to PARIS everyday and all night,
    AND
    STUDYING 3 LANGUAGES evry day and night
    AND
    working on videos and writing and reading
    EVERYDAY
    is
    being
    lazy?
    and not doing anything??

    according to my grandma ..

    who
    all she does
    at home
    is watch Tv, eat, and play games on her computer or look at facebook.

    oh ok please tell me how i don’t do anything? ?

    • Your grandma should treat you with all the love and care in the world @invincible, do what makes you feel positive and don’t let anything or anyone bring you down, smile and keep being the beautiful angel that you are Cecelia, have a great trip in Paris, remember to keep going and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Selfish people only care about themselves, psychic vampires that sap your energy and mood. She only sees things you do that benefit her directly as you doing things. Because her level of narcissism leaves her emotionally cripple and incapable to truly care about anyone but herself.

      Don’t let the cancer of her personality latch onto you like an alien facehugger… planting anger and resentment deep in your heart, that eventually grows to maturity and comes bursting out of you in a full-on emotional meltdown. Just remind yourself that you are a better person, shrug and try not to pity her. Her best years are behind her, wasted and squandered … and here you are doing… well, apparently everything! The level of (subconscious at LEAST) envy of your youth and jealous of your freedom.

      Just always be thinking towards the end goal of ”damage control” when having to deal with her. Sorry, this is a random, stream of consciousness kind of a rant. I hope if makes you feel a little better though. Old people are always trying to remain relevant… but they just aren’t, so they will do anything they can… almost reverting back into children. Anyway attention, even negative attention… is still attention… and it’s still a form of narcissistic supply for a lot of people. Do not worry… they aren’t hurting you… people say things, and you then subconsciously allow yourself to react. But you are the one hurting yourself, they cannot enter your mind… so choose to accept your intellectual superiority and strive for immunity from weak… weak minded people and their emotional cancer.

      <3 These people are beneath you. <3