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    Artur posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    I recently have been really trying to up the standards (values) by which I live. At first it wasn’t so bad, and I was doing really well.

    I’ve been a real hardass on my friends to try to improve as well, and they were all for it, until last weekend where I was a total hypocrite and did the opposite of all the things I was asking of everyone else, really screwing things up…

    Now my best friend is giving me the cold shoulder, and I feel terrible because I was supposed to be the lead but I’ve betrayed them all and have no idea how to proceed…

    Mood : Ashamed
    • people make mistakes, it might be difficult but i think you can resolve this just by talking to him/them and apologizing! in other words just own up to your mistake/s, maybe even doing or giving something to help if it’s more severe :)

    • I would try to talk to your friends and see if you can resolve things with them @arturec, tell them that you want to continue being there for them in a way that helps all of you become stronger and better, hopefully everything will be OK, keep going and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)

    • your job is not to lead but to be an example and if you are blessed to have people who follow your lead then this is what makes a leader… no worries show them what mercy is all about by showing them mercy when they screw up

    • your job is not to lead but to be an example and if you are blessed to have people who follow your lead then this is what makes a leader… no worries show them what mercy is all about by showing them mercy when they screw up