Keep being there for others @karisma-das, you are so compassionate and nice, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

Sounds like you’re both. I’m the same way.
I love helping and being there for others, but it’s also nice to let out my own troubles every so often.

@karisma-das People often suggest to not give advice or judgment unless the person you are listening to asks you so, it’s the ’hard mode’ of listening, you could try that setting and see if it makes it easier to keep the two roles separated.

@rinseandrep I guess, you know.
Maybe its about letting them literally ’vent’
what a lot of us mostly want is actually someone to pour our sorrow’s into.

That’s understandable. that’s the way I must train myself to be.
Thanks for the inputs!

@Hayden
Somehow, it makes me feel like they’ll trust me more.
like they’ll think i’m being less formal.