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    Raven S. posted an update 8 years, 2 months ago

    This girl that I have a toxic relationship with (who thinks that we’re friends) keeps calling me and my family to arrange a ’catch up’ but I really don’t want to see her because she’s a narcissist and a bigot, not to mention I don’t want to hang out with her right before we leave for the rest of the holidays. I have absolutely no idea why she wants to hang out with me so much, given that we’re so different and for the last two years or longer I’ve been trying to get rid of her. We have nothing in common so there’s nothing to talk about. If she knew how many piercings I have now compared to the last time I’ve seen her she’d flip. NOT TO MENTION I’m trans and I have a girlfriend which she thinks is the most disgusting thing ever. She wants me to go to her house, which is most boring place in the world (she’s always saying that her house is so boring and how at least at my place we can catch a bus and go somewhere) and every time I go there I end up babysitting her younger siblings. How do I get out of seeing her???

    Mood : Annoyed
    • @riyphen You could pretend to be really busy for six weeks and ignore her messages

    • Or you could be honest and just say you don’t want to, that you don’t appreciate her judgemental personality and that you refuse to surround yourself with that kind of negativity.

    • Don’t let this girl be horrible to you @riyphen, she should respect and treat you nicely, I would tell her how you feel or say to her that you are unable to see her since she is judging you, which she shouldn’t do, you deserve people around you who will be compassionate and who will understand you, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)