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    Postive Vibes posted an update 8 years, 3 months ago

    I feel like i am lying to my mum by hiding my relationship like before she found out and told me to leave him but i don’t want to lie to my mum but i don’t want to leave him either i have tried talking to my mom but it just gets into a big argument saying this is my house and that we will never approve if u intended to get married to him i don’t want to hurt her and be a good daughter to her as she feels she can’t trust me but i don’t want to leave him as he is the one that makes me happy all the time

    Mood : Depressed
    • Hey! What is it about your boyfriend to which your mother is so strongly opposed?

      @positivity-vibes

    • I would try to talk to your mother about your relationship @positivity-vibes, tell her how happy your partner makes you, let her know how special he is to you, hopefully when your mother comes to meet him in person, she will like him, be as honest and as open as you can, try to stay positive, I only want the best for you, you can do it, message me anytime if you want to chat, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I’m going thru something very similar, send me a message if u would like to chat more about it. Its rlly hard I know, but u can do this, trust me.

    • Well basically he lives in a different city to me, he is hindu but his family orginates from punjab and we orginate from a different part of india but both of us have been born and bred here and she doesn’t like it cause we don’t know ”what kind of people they are?” And we dnt know them that well also the fact that his parents have separated due to some personal reason she thinks that is bad and i am veg and he eats meat not forgetting to say his mom is a veg too and she is like oh he isn’t right for you

    • Trust me i have tried talking to her about it but it just ends up in a big fight with her bringing in society and saying this is our house and all the thing is i will be willing to talk to her but she just doesn’t want to listen

    • I really hope so i can get through this and will do