Find happiness within your self and when you do share it and use it in a way to help others don’t ever let the person be your happiness because when they leave so does that happiness and every meaning that happiness gave you or did for you and it turns into hate sadness anger stress tear thought and you will find yourself living for every opposite opportunity that comes at you and that turns into addiction and leads you into a entire different person you will find yourself lost confused and every other negative influenced impact that you can possibly have and if you find yourself in that place you will find you are still living for that person and will find recovery from that person so it always seems like it for that person in some type of way involving you and how to live or live without them so if you can’t help yourself help another person with this give them good useful positive advice love yourself find value in yourself because another can not be your happiness they can not fill that emptiness you all have a place in my heart because I know from personal experience she had my teenage years 13 until 19 and her last words were a text to me saying it’s time for me to be realistic we never had nothing and I never had feelings for you like that a month later she was engaged to a man so please take my advice your happiness can not be because of someone else you must first have it for yourself