Well, maybe its because they don’t want to hurt your feelings, its easier on the conscience when we lie about why we cant come Than whem we tell the truth about why you cant come

You don’t deserve any drama in your life @marikofujimoto, others really should treat you with respect and kindness Mariko, you deserve to feel loved, accepted and appreciated by others hun, I’m sure you will meet compassionate and sweet people who will always be there for you no matter what, there are good people out there Mariko, always remember that, things will be OK, be positive and keep smiling, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

Cause people are fucking stupid and inconsiderate and think since theyre not flat out telling you no it’s not going to hurt your feelings