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    emptyocean posted an update 9 years ago

    Is it even right to stop yourself in getting close to someone knowing that there is always a tendency that they would leave?

    • Rain replied 9 years ago

      It’s okay to be scared. There’s always a chance people might leave, but remember that not everyone will leave. Some are bound to stay, no matter what. Even if your trust has been broken before and people have walked out, it’s important for yourself to learn to give a bit of trust to new people. You’ll notice that some will turn out to stay. If you want, you can still remain some distance. It all depends on what you’re comfortable with.

    • It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all… I think that’s how the saying goes.

    • I seem to not know what to do. A part of me says Yes and apart of me says no. I have enough people leaving me and I don’t know if i can handle it if I’d be seeing this person go… I get little too attached. I’m confused.

    • Oli replied 9 years ago

      You deserve to have people in your life who will always stick by you and who will always be there for you @emptyocean, those who leave you aren’t worth it, I’m sure you will find loving and compassionate people who will love you for who you are, you can do this, be positive and keep smiling, I’ll always be here if you ever need to talk or if you ever need a friend, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)