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    Deanna Rose posted an update 9 years ago

    I need help, when i was younger i had bad experiences makeing out. Boys would force themselves upon me. Even a kid who was seriously mentally disabled wouldn’t let me leave did. Any who kissing has never sence been appealing to me. I enjoy watching other people do it just not me. My boyfriend wanted to try making out, and he just smelled in his natural breath and skin like the bad experiences i had in the past and it made me feel very uncomfortable and in a was disgusted that he wanted to kiss me with more passion. I really like this guy and i explained to him everything. He said he understands and hes fine takeing it slower, but i dont see how i can ever enjoy this. My boyfriend thinks kissing is the most intimate thing we can do, and really wants to show his affection this way. I feel sorry for him when other people can kiss just fine and he has me who is awkward and uncomfy with the idea. What should i do? How can this work?

    Mood : Ashamed
    • I say the best thing you can do at this time is take things slow. Maybe start with little peck and start getting used to it.

    • Oli replied 9 years ago

      I agree with @xxbaybayxx, do take things slow and don’t rush into anything, also if you are not comfortable with anything do let it be known @deannarose97, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)