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    TheLifeGiving posted an update 9 years, 2 months ago

    I love helping people but I don’t like it when they come to me all serious with a decent problem like husband is cheating on them and then they go like ’my husband cheats on me with a black person, do you see the issue now?’ Then I kinda think ’Yes I see the issue, the issue is you being a racist’ and I feel bad for the husband who gets cheated on but that’s not a nice thing to say! You shouldn’t judge someone on who they are!

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    • Sometimes it’s cool to explore irrational statements and see if the person we talk to sees that.

    • I second the comment above, but yeah, I see what your point is here. That’s really annoying at times.

    • He didn’t reply after I told him that I wasn’t against black people, he even asked my age and where I was from I kinda had a strange feeling about it so I replied with ’I’m not your age and I don’t live where you live’ It kinda creeped me out to be honest

    • That’s really strange.. Age and place of living have nothing to do with liking or disliking black people.

    • I know, there was no reason for him to ask for my age nor for where I live. Black people live everywhere and I respect them. I don’t know why he asked it and I assume I never will because he stopped replying to me…