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    SourKiss posted an update 9 years, 3 months ago

    My grandmother was depressed, the other one is abusive and has a temper, my grandfather has schizophrenia, the other is abusive and has admitted to killing people, my dad is a abusive narcissist, my mom is abusive and depressed, my sister has brain damage and severe depression… what the fuck is wrong with me?

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    • I can understand that this worries you that you’d have something as well because they do. However, because they have something doesn’t mean that you would have something as well. If you’re concerned you might have something, it’s best to ask your doctor. This way they can find it out for you. Don’t worry just yet. There isn’t necessarily something wrong with you. Even if you’d get diagnosed with something that still wouldn’t mean something is wrong with you. Remember that you’re good just the way you are.

    • @SourKiss, no one is perfect, though your family sounds like it is far from such. Whatever happens, or doesn’t happen to you, you can get through it, because you are incredibly strong. But until something happens, try not to worry too much. There’s a quote that goes: ”Don’t worry about what you can’t control and don’t worry about what you can control.” Worrying isn’t going to make anything better, though that fact kind of stinks because our brain always leaps to worrying anyway. Try to focus on the things that are going right for you instead. Life has many ups and downs, but if we concentrate on what’s keeping us together rather than what’s tearing us apart, we can get through anything. Sorry, that comment ended up being a lot longer than I expected :) But anyway, message me if you need anything. Stay strong!

    • That helped a lot! thank you. sorry for the late response. Maybe I will go see a doctor later but I feel much better in the mean time~ you’re lovely thank’s again~

    • Thank you. your sage advice has helped me out~ I feel less worried now.

    • That is a smart way to approach the issue. why stress out about something I have no control over.