What tone was it in? Maybe you missunderstood him. Otherwise maybe he was just being spiteful and its one of those things. Talk to him about it and try and get it off your chest.

Also, make some hot chocolate!

So he’s an engineer and I’m an admin assistant.. so he makes like 4times as much as me. (also he’s 20 years my senior). So we were on our way into the gym last night and I made a comment about being tired.. he asked why..so I jokingly said ”cause I take care of you every morning”..because I get up an hour before him, make him coffee, a protein shake, and also lunch, then I shower, then wake him up so he can get some extra sleep. So yea, I make sure he has everything he needs in the morning and that he’s happy.

He makes a ton of money plus has no bills, and I make alot less and have my student loan bills.. so I can’t always afford to go out or whatever, but I always try to take him to dinner a few times, or go to a show, or take him on a date night..I do what I can.. plus I’m always there for him to talk to or vent or whatever.. so last night he got butthurt about my ”taking care of you” comment.

Then he started going off on how I don’t contribute to the relationship and how he has to pay all the time when we go out or go buy groceries or something like that. Then he asked ”what do you contribute to this relationship”..I think that hurt the worst.

Also, while he was telling me all the things wrong with me, I told him it hurt my feelers that sometimes it feels like he takes advantage of my sweetness/niceness, and that i would appreciate to be told thank you occassionally, to which he replied ”why do you needs thanks for something that has to be done anyway”.

Thanks for letting me vent.