First off, your friend is being there for you. He is not lying to you or feeding you things he thinks you want to here. He is telling you how he sees the situation. The issue with your mum though. Both my parents do this same exact thing to me, and it fucking sucks, I know it does… To have your parents view what you think is awesome so negatively like that. But if you want that to change, I think you should sit down with your mum and talk to her. I am not sure of the relationship you have with her, but it’s best if you inform her of how she makes you feel because the truth is, if you let this go on it’s gonna destroy parts of you if not already. Above all, you should be happy with the decisions you make and have confidence in yourself. If your tired of feeling the way you do, take action and change things!
First off, your friend is being there for you. He is not lying to you or feeding you things he thinks you want to here. He is telling you how he sees the situation. The issue with your mum though. Both my parents do this same exact thing to me, and it fucking sucks, I know it does… To have your parents view what you think is awesome so negatively like that. But if you want that to change, I think you should sit down with your mum and talk to her. I am not sure of the relationship you have with her, but it’s best if you inform her of how she makes you feel because the truth is, if you let this go on it’s gonna destroy parts of you if not already. Above all, you should be happy with the decisions you make and have confidence in yourself. If your tired of feeling the way you do, take action and change things!
I was scrolling through my old posts, and I can’t remember if I ever sent you a personal message to thank you for this reply. So thank you! ^^