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    rayman1030 posted an update 10 years, 10 months ago

    So I just posted this update before, but apparently it didn’t post or something.

    But anyways, I’m thinking about talking to my ex about some questions I have regarding how our relationship ended and what she wants of us right now.

    Some reasons I have to not do it though are that I don’t want her or her friends or anyone else thinking I am clingy or still dwelling on her or something or to potentially ruin the relationships I have with some mutual friends of ours.

    I also know what I WANT to hear from her, but I’m not sure I know and if I am ready for what I DON’T want to hear from her.

    I am just wondering what to do guys, any thoughts?

    • I think you should still have no contact. You are doing better and finding your happiness again. Don’t drag up the old bad feelings. I know this first hand.