You should stay in University, I don’t recomend taking a two year break because after taking a break it’s quite hard to pick up where you left off… While I understand your boyfriend is important to you, and him leaving will devistate you, you have to know what is more important to you. It’s a tough choice, I’m not going to lie, but if you choose to go to University you have even more of a reward when you finish with a diploma and someone, who loves you, be reunited with you. I say, look at what you’ve been doing wrong and fix it. Change the outcome of the class.
You could regret all your life not putting in that last effort, and lose what you worked hard for 7 years. The fact that your relationship worked so far doesn’t mean it will be the only one ever, maybe what made it work is who you have been in these last years and you will have more relationships like this if he decides to leave you because you are pursuing your goal. You can have a degree and be single, or stay with him, and maybe in 5 years you will be single with no degree? You don’t need to end up doing something you don’t like, but having a degree could open doors to side jobs that you like.
Thank you BoyWonder, very much to take time and answer my question. I also think it’s hard to restart the university after a break, would be impossible to reconcile work and studies in my situation and my work isn’t far from complete. I don’t like the course, that make more hard. I wish you good things. I will talk to my boyfriend thursday.
Hello ChattyLil’Me ! I also thought I was being selfish, but in the end, I have just myself to take care of me… Your story is beautifull, and at the end I’m sure that worth the time and the experience made both stronger. Also, your history gives me hope, maybe that would work for me and my bf too? I have no words to describe how that would be good…It would be hard, but after that…It would be so good I couldn’t believe. Usually I do not see myself as deserving the things that I get, but I would make sure that my bf get all that he deserves. I wish you good things in your day! Thank you!
Hi rinseandrep! Thank you for take your time and tell me your ideas about my problem. I didn’t like the course, but the few experiencies working with architecture wasn’t so bad. The theory Vs pratice thing, in my university one was very far from another. I agree with you when you say ”having a degree could open doors to side jobs that you like”, that’s true. Anyway, this is my second boyfriend in my life, maybe I’m too afraid because I’m inexperienced yet. I also think in the degree, after all, I am 100% sure that I will receive the diploma. I will talk to my boyfriend soon and talk to him, explain and get his answer. Thank you, have a nice day!
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You should stay in University, I don’t recomend taking a two year break because after taking a break it’s quite hard to pick up where you left off… While I understand your boyfriend is important to you, and him leaving will devistate you, you have to know what is more important to you. It’s a tough choice, I’m not going to lie, but if you choose to go to University you have even more of a reward when you finish with a diploma and someone, who loves you, be reunited with you. I say, look at what you’ve been doing wrong and fix it. Change the outcome of the class.
You could regret all your life not putting in that last effort, and lose what you worked hard for 7 years. The fact that your relationship worked so far doesn’t mean it will be the only one ever, maybe what made it work is who you have been in these last years and you will have more relationships like this if he decides to leave you because you are pursuing your goal. You can have a degree and be single, or stay with him, and maybe in 5 years you will be single with no degree? You don’t need to end up doing something you don’t like, but having a degree could open doors to side jobs that you like.
Thank you BoyWonder, very much to take time and answer my question. I also think it’s hard to restart the university after a break, would be impossible to reconcile work and studies in my situation and my work isn’t far from complete. I don’t like the course, that make more hard. I wish you good things. I will talk to my boyfriend thursday.
Hello ChattyLil’Me
! I also thought I was being selfish, but in the end, I have just myself to take care of me…
Your story is beautifull, and at the end I’m sure that worth the time and the experience made both stronger.
Also, your history gives me hope, maybe that would work for me and my bf too? I have no words to describe how that would be good…It would be hard, but after that…It would be so good I couldn’t believe. Usually I do not see myself as deserving the things that I get, but I would make sure that my bf get all that he deserves.
I wish you good things in your day! Thank you!
Hi rinseandrep! Thank you for take your time and tell me your ideas about my problem. I didn’t like the course, but the few experiencies working with architecture wasn’t so bad. The theory Vs pratice thing, in my university one was very far from another. I agree with you when you say ”having a degree could open doors to side jobs that you like”, that’s true. Anyway, this is my second boyfriend in my life, maybe I’m too afraid because I’m inexperienced yet. I also think in the degree, after all, I am 100% sure that I will receive the diploma. I will talk to my boyfriend soon and talk to him, explain and get his answer. Thank you, have a nice day!